Im 24 and am sexually attracted to a 40 yr old man whos married at work..and he has been staring at me when Im not looking..but this has subsided....is it too late?
2006-07-16 06:45:23 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I meant to* not wo* lol
2006-07-16 06:45:53 · update #1
and I do just want sex - no strings attached ;)..one night of passionate sex...
2006-07-16 07:06:12 · update #2
you r a s lut and a home wrecker
2006-07-16 06:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If He's Married Yes It's Completely Wrong,When You Are 40 Would You Want Young Girl Sleeping With Your Husband? What Goes Around Will Come Around,You May Pay Later For What You Do Now,Plus There Is A Lot Of Bodies In Graveyards Everywhere Due To Sleeping With Other PPL's Mates,I MEAN A Whole Lot,Be Careful You Will Pay'''
2006-07-16 06:51:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to check your morals. It doesn't matter if you are sexually attracted to a man that is 16 years older than you; he's married. It doesn't matter if you catch him looking at you or if you look at him you shouldn't have sex with a married man even if he isn't happy with his marriage...ITS WRONG! If you really LOVED him or something and truly had feelings for him and if you wanted him to break it off with his wife in an HONORABLE way, I would see no problem with that. But, let's face it honey, all your looking for is a one night stand. Another thing, you work with the guy my advice to you is never get involved with someone who you work with regardless if their married or single because you don't want something to happen to your relationship with them. Because if this happens you'll hate getting up and going to work, and you don't need to hate your job. You shouldn't have sex with him because he may go and tell people around the workplace and you'll be known as the "office ****," which you might not think that it would matter but you'll hate it later. And try not being all for yourself and think about if his wife found out she would probably be devistated, think about if u were his wife; you wouldn't want some younger woman sleeping with your husband.
2006-07-16 06:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by korniegirl1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong from a moral stand point.
But you do what you want. I am sure I do things that not everyone agrees with, but that is life.
But you have to be sure that all you both want is sex. It would be ugly if one of you wanted a relationship or something else. And put yourself in his wife's shoes. Would you want to be on the other side of this, I doubt it.
At the end of the day do what you want to do. If you can sleep at night, then so can I.
Good Luck!
2006-07-16 06:50:26 · answer #4 · answered by lalala 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, the age difference, probably wouldn't work too well. My ex boyfriend's 41 year old mother married a 24 year old man, they started having problems instantly. Second, he's married, so it's wrong of you to even think of having anything with him. And it probably is too late, he probably realized it's not worth problems at home.
2006-07-16 06:50:16 · answer #5 · answered by silly_emo_hair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is wrong, especially for you. Play it out - if you get involved with him and he leaves his wife for you you'll have a man that you know is a cheat. Chances are he will just use you and you'll end up alone and with a broken heart. Neither choice is good. Find a man that wants you and no one else!! The age is not a problem as long as you are both adults.
2006-07-16 06:53:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex with a 40 year old, NO. With a married man, or even considering it, YES.
2006-07-16 06:47:56 · answer #7 · answered by Mark W 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your husband or boyfriend was going after a 40 year old married woman at work, how would that make you feel?
2006-07-16 06:48:28 · answer #8 · answered by Stuart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set your husband up with your best friend and that should be fair also remember to start at the same time so as to be really fair after all that's your personality right.By the way I'm43 and single would that change anything
2006-07-16 06:53:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong becuase he is married. Just remember that one day you will be old and married and a young woman might decide to sleep with your husband. what goes around comes around. And obviously he's untrustworthy if he's willing to cheat on his wife.
2006-07-16 06:54:20 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but i have to agree with every one on here.you need to get involved with someone ur own age.and stop haveing sex with a 40 year old married man.
2006-07-16 06:55:16 · answer #11 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋