My x BF of 5 yrs just dumped me last week. I havent eat, sleep & icant get out of bed. I dont see thepoint in living anymore. I love him so much and want him so bad & i cant have him. Im not used to being alone and im scared.
What r the positives 2 come out of this situation. i cant see any?
I am lonely, (walk thru the malls by myself, go to movies alone, sleep alone.
Im sexuall y fustrated (horny) sorry to sound gross but when u been w/ someone that long u have to have it. He lives down the block from me & i find myself wanting 2 go over there to be with him that way cuz im soused to him, need it & love him. I cant have it with someone I dont love, im not like that. hes theonly guy i ever been with & i cant see mysself or want anyone else. but how do i cope with the fact he dont want me?
he dumped me cuz there was a showon cable on child molesters who get busted by cops. And he kept saying ,"oh those men r sick and she put away like 20 times and he wouldnt change the ..
2006-07-16 06:24:11 · 10 answers · asked by star4 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the channel so thats when I told him u shouldnt be talking about those men like that when u did the same u cheated on me with a 17 yr old girl when your 25. After that he told me to get out and never return and i make him sick.
Was I wrong for venting like this, i just dont like hypocrisy & i was just stating my feelings about it. I would have never said it if I I new he would react that way and break up with me over it?
Do u think he is warranted in breaking up with me after 5 yrs?
Hes doen worst things to me like cheat hit me and call me horrible names and I forgive him cuxz i love him? why is he so cruel 2 me and how do i get over this?
2006-07-16 06:28:50 · update #1
sounds like now you can have more fun in life... not tied to any relationship anymore... instead of being depressed you should be out there hunting for guys to have fun together.
2006-07-16 06:27:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a few issues you need to deal with and the main one is that you need to learn to love and be by yourself. Don't let being with a man define who you are. Someone breaking up with you is no reason to get so depressed you can't find a reason to live. Don't be that weak and feel so little about yourself. You should have the attitude that if he let you go he lost a good thing and it's his lost. The reason you said he left you doesn't make sense anyway. What does a show about child molesters have to do with him breaking up with you. Do you have a child with him? Are you sure that you're in love with him or just that fact that you were in a relationship. You said that you've never been with anyone else so I'm sure that you are hurting over that but it's not the end of the world. Brush him off and go on with your life!!!!
2006-07-16 06:38:44 · answer #2 · answered by whatIthink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have had a narrow escape from a potentially abusive male. Shut down your emotions and think with logic. Be glad he has not impregnated you. Now start your life anew with a better love! (Easy to say, but hard to do...so get tough, honey!)
2006-07-16 06:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by tom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he'll be back. it's hard to just walk away from a 5yr relationship, so just give him some time to come begging for you back. and if he doesn't, just start spending time with friends and family. you're gonna need to be around (even if you don't feel like it) people you care about cuz it's gonna take a few months before you stop thinking about him every day.
2006-07-16 06:29:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
awl dont feel like that dear,boys are not worth your life,just find someone else then you will forget about him.
2006-07-16 06:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
live on....
i believe u deserve better...
dont give yourself excurses to torture.. urself..
give yourself sometime to get over...
and open your social circle...
know more people...
and pick up a sport.. if u like...
and divert ur attention from to ur breakup to .. other things..
take care..
2006-07-16 06:31:20 · answer #6 · answered by garfield 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start a new life..you'll be stronger than ever and need not a man to complete you..
2006-07-16 06:49:12 · answer #7 · answered by Tarumi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He dumped you because of a show on cable??? Huh????
2006-07-16 06:28:10 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. O'Clock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dont even feel like that he wasnt worth it
2006-07-16 06:33:26 · answer #9 · answered by lollipop 101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOT OF FISH IN THE SEA
2006-07-16 06:27:15 · answer #10 · answered by Angelgonebad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋