so i've had 2 guys in my life, we never really dated or anything coz they always had gfs so i was the friend with benefits. and i hadn't talked to one of the guys in 2 years but a while ago we started talkin and we agreed to hang out. and so i snuck out of the house (coz my parents hate him and won't let me go out with any guys ever) and we wound up makin out and he fingered me and stuff. but i had no attraction to this guy the whole time. when we talked online and on the phone i thought i totally loved him, but then when i was with him i just couldn't get into it at all.
and also 2 years ago i was really good friends with 2 girls who are bi-sexual. and i ran into one of them just a couple of days ago and she really wants me to hang out with me her and the other friend. when i told my mom, my bro was behind me and said "hm, you gonna try makin out with girls now so you can compare guys and girls?".
2006-07-16 06:12:53 · 17 answers · asked by lifeistough_period 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and then i started thinkin that maybe i am bi or lesbian because i thought i liked guys but after kissing one i had no feelings for him, and i really wanna hang out with these 2 girls??? help??
2006-07-16 06:13:43 · update #1
btw, i'm almost 17.
2006-07-16 06:14:46 · update #2
and my mom won't let me hang out with the gurls either because she says that they look rough and are bi,
shouldn't i be able to decide who i want to hang with?
2006-07-16 06:16:40 · update #3
If youre 16, I think you're just trying to identify your sexuality like teens often do at your age.
The guy, you probably had a fantasy of what he would be like and seeing him in real life, it was shattered... Crap like that happens, Had it many times meeting women in person, that I met online
Now don't know about the woman thing.. are you sexually attracted or just plutonic (friends)? It just maybe you want to be a friend to them but not sexually or as some said, you may be bi-curious....
2006-07-16 06:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by gearbox 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you didn't feel anything for him, doesn't mean you are bi or a lesbian. Now if that number were drastically higher, I might agree. There are about 3 billion men on the planet. Don't be upset if the one you find at a young age isn't right for you.
2006-07-16 13:22:34 · answer #2 · answered by Mark W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being bi or lesbian. As far as not having a good time with the guy, it may have been just a lack of attraction with him. If you are old enough or if your parents will let you, than experiment with guys and girls. Straight females aren't attracted every male. Bisexuals aren't attracted to everyone. Lesbians aren't attracted to every female.
2006-07-16 13:20:39 · answer #3 · answered by Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just cause you kissed someone and don't have feelings for them doesn't mean your bi or lesbian. This is a choice you have to make, whether you WANT to be bi or lesbian. Maybe you haven't found a man that you desire yet. Anyway, just take your time, you've got the rest of your life for this. Best of luck....
2006-07-16 13:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe bi curiouse but not bi sexexual you need to give it some time u might just be going through a phase
2006-07-16 13:17:07 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it.....you must try it out, then you can make a decision......what if you bi? what if your a lesbian? it wouldnt matter, cuz you would be happy.......think of your self first, and everything else falls in to place.....it wouldnt change who you are....GOOD LUCK....
2006-07-16 13:19:21 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Clean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your lack of feelings was only for him. that doesnt mean you will only have feelings for women. most of the gay or bi world knew since a very young age that women had lustful effect on us.
2006-07-16 13:15:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't mean your bi cause you don't want to hang out with the guys, there's alot of girls who just want to hang out with girls.Be patient and don't start thinking your bi, cause of what you say.
2006-07-16 13:16:14 · answer #8 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know you arent bi then just becuase your bro thinks you are you dont have to agree with him
its okay that you have those people that are they are different
2006-07-16 13:14:52 · answer #9 · answered by lilmikey2246 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not the person to answer this, I think homosexuality and bisexuality are immoral.
2006-07-16 13:18:08 · answer #10 · answered by mjcariati1971 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋