I'm not interested in sex. Am I normal?

Answer 1

You're okay. Maybe your stressed out for some reason and don't even realize it. Check with you doctor.

Answer 2

You probably repressed those feeling so much you don't know how to "call them up" again. Unless you are in a wheelchair and paralyzed from the neck down. (Mind you, I dont' know if that's true or not. The mind can be a powerful tool.) Pheremones play a really important part in desire too, so maybe you're not picking up the vibe. Then again, who knows? It'll hit you all at once tonight, and you'll be left in a puddle of your own desire, and then you'll have to remove this question because it will be a lie. Then again, maybe you have too many worries. Having too many worries puts your focus on food and shelter (and comfort), not sex. Then again, maybe you're an alcoholic. I hear those people are so run down after a while....all their internal organs go caput. Then again, maybe no one's made out in front of you before. What's your favorite fantasy? Do you WANT to be interested in sex? I don't know. Theres' too many questions. REad a dirty story. A WELL WRITTEN story. That's my recommendation.

Answer 3

I'm 45 and hate sex and never even think about it. I mean I literally NEVER get "THAT" feeling and I'm married for the second time. Most of the world will tell you it's not normal BUT whatever feels right for YOU is NORMAL! You're just fine. Some people do nothing but think about it 24/7 and I don't see the big deal in it.

Answer 4

Not sure why this in allergies, but...
Once I started being sexually active, and my relationship ended, I had no interest in sex for 2 years. Then I had one relationship that lasted 6 months, then went another 3 years before having sex again. Some people just don't have much of a desire for it. I don't think it makes you abnormal.

Answer 5

Well at least im not the only one who is not interested..no I am not gay and ugly.. I'm pretty, and very well attractive to men. I just don't want sex or go lookin for sex. I'm 35 and very healthy with 2 kids and i'm a independent single mom... I haven't had sex in almost 9 yrs...I thought there was something wrong with me, so I went to the doctor thinkin i was going into menapause. the doc just laughed and said no your not even there yet.. He just said I was hormonally unbalanced...hmmmm? he told me not to worry It'll change again. just like mood swings. I guess, there are pills for this unbal. stuff but go with the flow and just be yourself. and save your money to spend on other things that make you happy... unless specifically directed by your doctor.

Answer 6

Well, the first thing to consider here is how old are you? And, by the way, have you never been interested in sex, or does this "problem" began a few months or years ago? You must give more information.

Answer 7

Don't worry too much about it, too much emphasis is placed on our society to be into sex. So you're not interested in sex as per with another person; we all have some sort of sexual energy and yours may already be going into other activities.

Answer 8

Are you not interested in sex, because you are allergic to it?
(Noticing to which section it is posted to...)

Yeah, it's perfectly normal to not be interested in sex. You may be an asexual.

Check out:
www.asexuality.org

Answer 9

Why would you not being interested in it make you not normal? Maybe you have different priorities and don't need sex to thrive in this world. That doesn't make you unnormal! I say kudo's for you that you don't need something like sex to make your world shake :)

Answer 10

There is a very small percentage of society, like 1 percent, that is classified as asexual. Do you feel normal? Does it bother you that you feel that way?

You're sexuality is all about you, be true to yourself and that's what matters.

Answer 11

Yes, you are normal. If the ones around you are, does not make you abnormal, just different. Stop comparing yourself to standards, and enjoy who you really are. Be true to yourself! And... what are standards made of anyway?...