2006-07-16 05:51:21 · 18 answers · asked by Nomes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
after a while, maybe... that is if during the breakup each person spends the time alone. not always by-them selves, but not to get involved (intimately) with someone else. i think it doesn't give the person a chance to take a look at themselves a hard look , some soul searching. i think thaty no matter what was the cause of the split, both ALSO have a part in the reconcilliation or the out come. why do some choose to keep making things worse? keep adding to the hurt? continue to do the same things that cause all the hurt in the first place? dont they realize that after a while there becomes so much water under the bridge that you cant go back? things are said and damage is done, and done and done. they say time heals all wounds, or all pain. well who knows how much time? maybe a week, maybe a month ,maybe a year ,but diffinately more than a few minutes. and how the person handles themselves can truely show if they are really regret how things were handled . maybe they felt like they were justified in what they did but do they continue to hurt you, do they try to look at why you did what you did to make them do what they did or do they just continue to blame the present situation on you for things way back. when they know something really hurts you do they continue to do it even more, and expect you to understand thier feelings? while disreguarding yours/ anly to continue to make things always bad, good memories are so far away they arn't anymore.
2006-07-16 07:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by flower4bird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes.
1. However they didn't work it out the first time, they still want ot be together, so they have to feel really sth strong for each other, and os they decided to try harder for this relationship!
2. They know each other's character so they know how to treat to each other.
3. -maybe- They know what they did wrong the first time so they will try to fix what was wrong then, and try to avoid making the same mistkas!!!
Anyway, i think it's great when two peopl get together again after a break up...
2006-07-16 06:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by smaragda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation. It happened to me once before, but things only worked out for like 2 weeks then 2 weeks later we broke up. But my situation is different from others.
2006-07-16 05:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by Fallen Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the breakup was nasty then it won't work ever
cuz when something is broaken it can't be fix again and if it did it won't return to be same ever again
its hard to let go a love or memmories but sometimes its the onley way there
2006-07-16 05:56:54 · answer #4 · answered by Nicholet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Statistically there is no difference. Your chances of working remain the same.
2006-07-16 05:53:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whathappens when you throw a stone on a mirror. It breaks. What if, you pick up the broken pieces and fix them up. Do the cracks disappear?? I think, you have your answer my friend
2006-07-16 06:00:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the reason you broke up i think. forgiveness and being able to get over and keep things in the past are vital. if either of you are going to dwell on old problems it prolly won't work.
2006-07-16 05:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by venusblu06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's like that if u 2 really want it to work.
2006-07-16 05:53:10 · answer #8 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometime is good to be a oart for a couple, we will really think properly it is this is the the right person we are looking for, if really love eachother then will be together again.
2006-07-16 05:59:09 · answer #9 · answered by loveable_chic19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if whatever caused the first break-up is resolved.
2006-07-16 05:55:20 · answer #10 · answered by Andr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋