i'm 18 years old and have never had a boyfriend (i'm a girl). i've never even been kissed before. i'm not very ugly but then again i'm not the most beautiflu person in the world. i don't know whats wrong with me. what do you think?
2006-07-16 05:49:35 · 26 answers · asked by wondering me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take it easy.
We spend our lives comparing ourselves to others and trying to conform to their standards.
If you want a man, set about finding one. If you're not too fussed, relax and see where life takes you.
There are a few girls like you here. Where can a guy find people like you?
2006-07-16 06:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by Wax Crayon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably because all the boys you've ever met were wankers, who wouldn't know a good thing if they saw it. You are still very young, and trust me when I say that, without having seen you, much more unattractive girls than you have pulled blokes. Probably even quite nice blokes. And you shouldn't need to "put out" either. So relax, a nice guy will come along, I live in hope that there are some guys somewhere that are reasonably nice looking and don't have any major personality defects. This website is full of people of both sexes asking where all the nice guys/girls are.
2006-07-16 13:56:23 · answer #2 · answered by Rotifer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey well if you are, I am even more a freak. I haven't had any sort of relationship with a guy EVER and some of my friends are living with partners! I think i will be the 40-year old virgin. And the thing is I have been told I look like a model (although I don't see it)... I guess guys just are afraid to go for the best.
2006-07-16 12:59:28 · answer #3 · answered by Rox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because u have never had a b/f or been kissed doesn't make u a freak. It's not u it's just that it hasn't happen yet( did u see the movie, 40 yr old virgin)
It will happen when it happens, so in the meantime stop thinkinhg ur a freak or u may become one
2006-07-16 13:00:30 · answer #4 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you're not a freak Cath. The most important question is whether this lack of dates/kissing etc is making you unhappy. If it's not - what's the big deal? If it is making you unhappy, try to understand why.
DO NOT enter into anything you're not 100% comfortable with just because you feel it's time, or you're missing out, or because someone talks you into it.
From where I am, 22 years older than you, believe me, you have plenty of time for everything!
2006-07-16 13:24:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My Brother had to wait 36 years before any girl showed interest in him. But now he's loved up completely!!
Some people just don't seem to get the attention they deserve. You are not a freak!! Your time will come x
2006-07-16 12:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by Fluke 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not. Nothing is wrong with you, Everyone is different. There are ppl the same age as you who think they have a problem too but they don't. There are even ppl older than you who is in your same situation. But it's alright. I believe that there's always the one for everyone. It's just that some that doesn't see it or missed their oppurtunity. But you will find someone. I know it. He will come when the right time comes.
2006-07-16 13:04:26 · answer #7 · answered by Fallen Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation, only difference is I'm a guy, I've never had a girlfriend and I'm 28!!!! So I hope you don't think I'm a freak lol. You are so young. These things take time. You'll get there and when it happens it will be wonderful!!!!
Take care and
Good luck
2006-07-16 13:01:56 · answer #8 · answered by Ben R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say theres nothing wrong with you. But sometimes you got to hang out where the men are. Try working at a sport shop u know something along that lines. Most of the men ~i met looks really wasn't the attraction~ it was my personality that drew their attention.So keep the inside beautiful
2006-07-16 13:01:00
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dnt worry about it, u haven't met the right guy yet. u will, your still only young. dnt compare your self to others its when u feel its right you will meet new people and u will let them see how nice u are. your probably a little shy at the moment but as times goes on and u learn about yourself u will become more confident.
try and get out there! go out to the pub meet new people. put urself in new situations and set urself goals to help boost ur confidence.
just dont go and lose ur verginity just cus u feel u shud, do it wen ur ready and enjoy meeting people. make it fun. doll urself up! self respect is the key once u learn to love urself people will have loadz more respect for you chick..
so go out there, go get um!
have fun n good luck!
xx
2006-07-16 13:03:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course your not, i was 19 before i had my first kiss and boyfriend. I am neither ugly or strange i was just very shy, dont worry about it have faith in yourself. Have fun with your friends and someone will come along xx
2006-07-16 13:00:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋