I started planning my wedding in June and my fiance and I sat down and made a promise that we would both put as much effort in to not fighting. Another tip I got from someone is to plan a date night once a week that the two of you can go out and absolutely under no circumstance can you talk about the wedding!! That way the two of you have a chance to be together and not stress about colors, vendors, guests etc. keep that spark alive and remember this is exciting so enjoy it, even the planning is a joyous occasion.
side note maybe your soon to be wife feels like she is doing most the work...one night make her dinner, have a glass of wine and sit down and ask her what neat ideas she has come up with so far and that you want to help in any way...and mean it :)
2006-07-17 11:25:52
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answered by kami m 2
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when you are planning a wedding is normal to argue, because each one has different ideas and to put everything together is not easy. But if you are arguing for another reason not related to the wedding, you should talk to her before get worst
2006-07-16 12:54:59
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answered by Ley 2
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It is normal because you love each other simply too much to allow anything wrong at all to the finest detail that you jus wan the whole thing to be perfect. For You For Her For Love.
2006-07-16 13:01:36
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answered by thirsty 2
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I think even under the best of circumstances planning the wedding can be a stressful experience. Just do your best to keep the spats to a bare minimum.
2006-07-16 12:51:10
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answered by jimel71898 4
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Yeah , that's normal , but it doesn't stop there .
You will disagree on many things throughout your marriage ,
and arguing is just a part of it ,,get use to it
2006-07-16 15:24:59
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answered by BONE° 7
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Is this during the wedding planning? Or is this what you always do?
One is normal. The other is not good; unless that's what you both enjoy.
2006-07-16 12:48:52
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answered by weddrev 6
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