I am a divorcee. After my ex-wife left me, I am so scare to go into deep relationship. I am scare to go into deep relationship cos I been hurt deeply. I did try to love someone but I just cant bring myself to get involve. So I decided to not to get marry again. But those ladies friends who fond on me, keep encourage me to get marry. In the end, I keep a distance from them. So is it better to stay single? or is it a wrong? Do I have to give myself another chance?
2006-07-16 05:29:45 · 7 answers · asked by singlebetter 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess for the time being..it's better not to get too involved as ur are still trying to heal ur wounds..
U still have a long way to go in life..sometimes we do get lonely, we need a soulmate or someone to share our emotions.. so i tink in the long run it's ok to have some female frens..and from there if there is someone suitable..y not go for it? after all when chemistry come u can't prevent it too...
What u need is time....
2006-07-16 16:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by kopisoh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as right or wrong. All you need is to think if when you grow older do you need a partner that's all. I believe that everybody deserved a 2nd chance. Who knows that your 2nd chance is much better that the 1st time. So you have to be open minded. I was like you before, I don't dare to approach girls after my first gf breakoff with me coz I was worried I cannot take the blow.
I miss a lot of chances before I gradually stand up again. I think you must take a bit of time and don't rush into any decision.
2006-07-17 04:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not matter of wrong or right for being single. It more about what and how you feel. If it feels right to be single, then stay single. But if you want to share your life with a woman, then you should forgive and forget about the past. Open yourself up to new life and life will open it self to you.
2006-07-16 06:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by Kent N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ur life don't let anyone tells u what right or wrong !!
u decide what right for u and what wrong or not suitable for u at the time
take it easy on yourself .. don't push urself to do something u don't feel like doing cuz it may end up failed ...
if its right for u now to be single then single it'll be
but later ,if u change your mind ....then .... so what ?! get a relation
just follow ur heart
2006-07-16 05:42:02 · answer #4 · answered by Nicholet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, take it easy. Give yourself space and let thye love/marriage thing happen when you feel it's right. Don't force yourdelf now, cos it won't work. Once you feel the time's right, then you'll be able to let go of the past and enjoy the future. good luck!
2006-07-16 05:42:14 · answer #5 · answered by flower 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to www.nomarriage.com read up, and then go find a foreign woman to marry.
2006-07-16 05:34:18 · answer #6 · answered by morpheus4356 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you thought of the priesthood?
May you find your bliss!
2006-07-16 05:40:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋