i want to find out the real happiness for my life.pls share me the ways what u found out.
2006-07-16 04:58:47 · 19 answers · asked by bravo 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Community Service
accept the things you cannot change and learn those that will not love you (enemys) open your heart more and go with your gut. if something just does not go over well with you, dont accept it, dont to it. if you are looking for love, look for another heart that will love yours, dont look for a pretty face and a person to change and control. if you accept and forgive things in life, you cannot ever be unhappy.
2006-07-16 05:03:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! I would say real happiness is to be free from debt, guilt, strife, blames and dissatisfaction. It can be found in loving others & being loved, being respected and cherished, living a purposeful and fulfilling life, leading a healthy and wealthy lifestyle, being able to give & take, not expecting anything in return when helping other people, being able to face reality and accept everything that is to come, have the ability to turn situations around and to be confident that supporters are available in times of trouble, to be wise in making decisions and actions, to be successful in building & maintaining good relationships with people, to count your blessings each day and be happy with what you have without asking for too much, to be able to care & share with other people who needed your help or are less fortunate, to be called filial by your parents & elders, to be treasured by friends and loved ones, to be at peace with God, others & yourself, AND LASTLY to be able to know where your final destination will be after your last breath. Just a little sharing....
2006-07-16 13:34:01 · answer #2 · answered by lim g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well stop comparing your life to others peoples lives. the majority of the world lives in poverty but many of them are happy because they have each other. they do not base their lives on materialistic possessions which we find this most abundent in the west and richer eastern nations. i believe when you have a religion that you agree with like mine is islam i follow my conscience and live by the laws perscribed in the quran and this helps me achieve happiness. doing charity work for others gives great pleasure in life. i find a lot of people in my country america ask what is the purpose to their life. well if you help people and make a difference in their lives you can and wiill make a change. one person at a time. doing good works is appeasing to the soul and brings you a sense of fullfillment. imagine feeding 100 homeless in a day. another route to finding true happiness is education. this is something you never loose unless u are stricken with altimers disease. but in any case what is the likleyhood of that. when you are educated you can educate others. plus you will have the ability to speak with others who are educated and learn more from them. excahnging knowledge so to speak. another form of happiness is travel. travel and see the world. see how other people live their lives. when you have better understanding of other people and the way they live that is true happiness as well in my eyes. hearing about something or some where is one thing it is another can of worms to live it. just imagine this. you go to a poor country in south america. these people are dirt poor. they do not have enough money for pencils for their schools. you come from the west. you give them 100 packages of number two pencils. this is meaningless to the american society but the education and knowledge that will sprout from that act of giving JUST pencils will change lives of those people. all of these things i speak of are uplifting to the soul. i believe it will give one a sense of high self esteem. how can one be miserable with all of these things to do in life? good luck
2006-07-16 12:10:14 · answer #3 · answered by wedjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Several studies in the past few years indicate that a person's general happiness level is genetic. So you can become somewhat happier, but not a lot.
2006-07-16 12:02:04 · answer #4 · answered by Phil S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happiness is being with those you care about.
Joy is accompishing something you can't do alone.
Elation comes if you Can do it alone.
Inspiration comes from desparation.
Find a good reason to be!
Mine is to help wipe out leprosy,wanna help?send$5.00 to Leprosy Mission Canada.
2006-07-16 12:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by kents411 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People create barriers to have to "find" happiness that is always there. Just open up and tap in.
But, I think helping others DOES seem to make the channels open up...
2006-07-16 12:02:31 · answer #6 · answered by oldsoul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
real happiness comes from spirit to get real happiness u have to get spiritual depth for getting spritual depth u have to contact ISLAM because it teaches the spritual depth and about happiness and care u have to read about ISLAM and ebmbrace ISLAM to get real happiness
2006-07-16 12:08:34 · answer #7 · answered by SH Khan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read "A New Earth," by Eckhart Tolle. It freed my burdens.
2006-07-16 12:02:52 · answer #8 · answered by sonysrai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love yourself and think positive and the rest of it will follow. Read the serenity prayer.
2006-07-16 14:40:19 · answer #9 · answered by twinsmakesfive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself, "what do I want to do with my life?" and "what will make me happy?" Also, when you are happy, you will draw others to you.
2006-07-16 12:04:22 · answer #10 · answered by Feathery 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋