i am into relation for 1 yr of which i dont see any future, values, morals as we both are married.i need to act immediately & wants a clean break asap.I spoke to her, she is ok with my decision provided that i give her more time.Since i said NO, she started calling me ..several times but i dont answer...V both knows its not going to work? then y cheating every minute.My only concern is, shud i break it all of a sudden or give her more time to slow down ..please help....
2006-07-16 04:49:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well stop thinking about it move on
2006-07-16 04:52:39 · answer #1 · answered by dam me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this your girlfriend that you want to end it with or your wife!!?? I see that you are still playing your games. For some reason you want to continue playing with peoples hearts. You can not have both worlds at the same time. You are going to have to pick between your girlfriend and your wife. You are cheating on both of these women at the same time, do you think this is fair on either one of them.What would you do if it was your wife that had the boyfriend out there and you found out about it, would you want to stay with her?? Personal if I was your wife and you was doing this to me, I would let you dump your girlfriend, then I would dump you as well, that way you wouldn't have either one of us. And hopefully your girlfriend wouldn't want you back either. Ever heard of "you can't have your cake and eat it to?" Well that is what you are trying to do here, and it just don't work that. You need to get into some kind of program some where if you just can't stop cheating on women. You really do need help very badly. Why don't you just get away from both of these women and all women for that part until you know what you really want in your life.
2006-07-20 19:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But first of all why you want to end this? Is she cheating on you? Is she blackmailing?. Anway good that you have decided to break it as it an extra marital affair any time.
Yes I think you should give her time. Stopping sudden would be an insult. but first decide whether you had any feelings for her at all. If you had taken this as a time pass then like other men you just live her to her fate. If you had any feelings for her at least for sometime..then give time for this relationship to end. Dont break it all of a sudden causing damage to her feelings. IF you had respect for her..loved her atleast for sometime then talk to her and end it. dont just throw her away. End it cooly.
2006-07-17 00:25:44 · answer #3 · answered by Ginnypid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you hadn't of cheated on your wife in the first place you wouldn't be in this perdiciment would you.
2006-07-16 11:55:00 · answer #4 · answered by guitardan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break it off right now she is only asking you for more time as she herself don't want to end it
2006-07-16 11:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by precious52801 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go, because as soon as you back together the whole story would start all over again, you can't save it...
2006-07-16 11:54:20 · answer #6 · answered by clovisfleischhund 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you both get precisely what you deserve.
2006-07-16 12:05:17 · answer #7 · answered by nimbleminx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no break will ever be clean.. you have to stop avoiding conflict.
2006-07-16 12:01:52 · answer #8 · answered by musicfish93 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋