can you help me what should i do?
2006-07-16 04:43:46 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Cars & Transportation ➔ Commuting
Your parents should be shot!
2006-07-16 04:46:12 · answer #1 · answered by ccccccc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, you are way too young for sex. This boy does not relly love you if he's asking you for sex in 6th grade. I can almost guarantee that if you let him, he'll ditch you and laugh with his buddies that you're easy and how great he is because he got you to do it.
And your parents are an entirely different story, and should probably A. Take a parenting class, B. remember they have a daughter who they are supposed to protect, or C. Be put in jail for child endangerment.
Don't do it. And if you insist on doing it, here's a few spoilers: It'll hurt like hell, you won't be able to breathe with him on top of you, it'll be sweaty and very messy at the end, and it won't start feeling good for a loooooong time. Oh, and he'll only last about 10 seconds, and you'll get nothing out of it but a bunch of pain and stained sheets.
2006-07-16 04:51:26 · answer #2 · answered by Ember 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only a year older than my own daughter. What I would tell her is that the right thing to do is to wait for marriage...when she is much older. It means a lot more when you wait. Not only that but there are too many sexually transmitted diseases(STDs) out there now. Even if protection is used, there is no guarantees. Don't be foolish. Be smart. The only reason this boy is probably telling you he loves you is to have sex with you. Don't be offended, but most boys this age only want to experience sex, themselves, for the first time. It could also ruin your reputation..if it were to get around..others make think you are "easy". It is not worth it. The fact that your parents seem to be ok with it at your age is very sad. Be smarter than your parents girl...you have too much to look forward to in your life.....sex included.
2006-07-16 04:55:49 · answer #3 · answered by teashy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi sweety I want to suggest an answers- for YOU!!--not your parents-or the lover... My KIDS had the SEX talk with me as well.. and I said the same do what you want but this is your responsibility--You body will change* It will no longer be innocent or pure**his heart will change -once the sex or thrill of wanting it is gone love will leave to**PRAY THAT YOU USE SOME FORM OF BIRTH CONTROL...Bringing a child into this decision needs to be considered.. Trusting him with your feeling-needs-hopes-dreams-desires-spirituality-and the fact that you are questioning this decision shows maturity on you part ---Sex has no place in your life right now--Movies-Clothes-Cars-Dating-Hair-Careers-Finances-- Guess what my girls and son turned out OK --the boy didn't wait he has 3 kids and hard times THEY IN SEX OOPS I MEAN LOVE-now they wish they waited...
2006-07-16 05:00:59 · answer #4 · answered by R B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, I think you need to parent yourself. Sex at a young age is something you will regret for the rest of your life, something ou can never take back. I would wait until you are at least 17 or even better, wait until you are involved with someone you are going to marry, someone that you love and loves you back.Then it will be very special. By doing it now, you are giving up a very special and memorable time.
2006-07-16 04:49:43 · answer #5 · answered by angelikness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this boy truely loved you he wouldn't ask you for sex and if your in the 6th as you say you are your mom will go to jail for having sex with someone under the age of 18
2006-07-16 04:49:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your parents love you. How can they say it's okay to have sex at the age of eleven or twelve. They should be ashamed of themselves. Someone please call the children's aid society to remove this kid from the parents home. It is outrageous and disgusting for a parent to say yes to having sex at this age. Honey you have lots of years ahead of you, so don't even think about that subject and forget about that boy. Okay!
2006-07-16 04:52:34 · answer #7 · answered by maiwake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mums and dads should never ever say such a thing to their child.
You are not ready to have a physical relationship, you are only 16!
If this boy really loves you, he wouldn't be asking you such a thing. Dump him and leave home as soon as you can.
2006-07-16 04:47:30 · answer #8 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a choice based on WHAT YOU WANT.
Its not your parents decision, nor your boyfriend's - it is yours. If you are not sure, the best thing to do is WAIT until you are.
PS. 6th grade in which country? How old are you? Whatever the answer - SAY NO - until you are sure that's what you want.
2006-07-16 04:49:28 · answer #9 · answered by chocolette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Putiing aside the fact that your parents are talking about the fact that it is OK for you to have sex IN THE FUTURE. You need to talk to a doctor before doing anything sexual.
2006-07-16 04:47:53 · answer #10 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this conversationn shouldnt even be on here, 6th grade is way too soon for sex, your still a kid, and your parents need help if they said it was okay! im just gonna say do it when your ready! im out!
2006-07-16 04:46:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋