I am 34 looking for my pretty girl. I found one (38 fromLA) briefly.
At first she wanted a relationship, and to be party girl. Unsafe sex she gets pregnant. I am ready willing and able, she says she doesn't want a relationship and is having an abortion. Her 22 yr old friend starts to hang out with me(mutual interest in something) girl 1 gets jealous but won't admit it. Girl 2 gets too friendly and wants to romp in the sak.(she has a bf) After much debate, over some beers at the lake I tell girl 1 whats up w/ girl 2. She gets furiously jealous(still no relationship) Next day as she spies me hanging out w/ girl 2 she tells the secret I told her. Now they all hate me, girl 2 says I lied and was trying to make her jealous. Girl one refuses to believe me, but still tries to contact me. Sending me puddle o mud she hates me song, telling me I'm a peice of $hit.
I tried to do the right thing and it backfired.
I guess these are people that are just mean.
2006-07-16 04:35:36 · 14 answers · asked by NIGHTSHADE 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe some fault, I did 'cultivate' the situation, but this was after much cruelty from girl 1. Plus, she kept coming back to me, my first really pretty girl.
2006-07-16 04:41:03 · update #1
thanx, ur al beautiful, none of us knew one another long, but I knew girl 1 before either of us knew girl 2.
2006-07-16 05:00:57 · update #2
i guess its more wrong that you broke confidentiality with the young lady you were talking to it could have been about anything private she was talking about not just that one subject...i think for future referance when someone is talking to you about something they most likely would like to keep private it is best to keep your lips sealed or risk losing a friend
2006-07-16 04:42:28 · answer #1 · answered by nothing 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girl 1 knew Girl 2 long before you did, Girl 1 firgured girl 2 was telling the truth. You just got caught in the middle. If girl 1 doesn't want anything to do with you, then you can't force yourself on her, now can you.
2006-07-16 11:41:15 · answer #2 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they were at all interested in you, this wouldn't have happened. Whatever the secret was, most of the time, if one really like or love the other, thing can be worked out and not just drop everything at the drop of a dime. Move on.
2006-07-16 11:43:29 · answer #3 · answered by Matty10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Toss both of those rats in the gutter and move on. They don't even have a clue what they want. You want one thing and the other wants a romp in the sack but no relationship. Disappear from both of the demons lives and move on
2006-07-16 11:39:51 · answer #4 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a mess. If girl one did not want a relationship and girl 2 was wiling to cheat on her b/f what the Hell are you doing with either of them? Girl one want to MURDER your unborn child. How sick is that? Two who@@@! Go find a real women who knows the meaning of life and love.
2006-07-16 11:41:08 · answer #5 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since everyone is mad at u then I guess it may be best to just cut ties with them all &move on.
They may come around after thinking thigs out, but just move on to better friends.
2006-07-16 11:44:16 · answer #6 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You played a dangerous game my man and lost. Playing one off the other is not good.
2006-07-16 11:37:56 · answer #7 · answered by wondering 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never talk about a girl to a girl it will always backfire! gabbing is a girls thing, did you not learn anything about tattletales in school!
2006-07-16 11:43:55 · answer #8 · answered by sorrells316 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing for sure, dont let her get to you, she is a ***** that is going to kill your baby she is nothing
2006-07-16 11:39:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And no fault of yours of course.
2006-07-16 11:37:34 · answer #10 · answered by Sappho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋