Have you ever felt like you just messed up really bad and then feel like you've dissapointed people you really love? And they trusted you with something?
2006-07-16 04:26:33 · 16 answers · asked by pure-freak-734 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
yeah i have....and it sure is an awful feeling. sometimes i feel like people look up to me...or i guess not necessarily "look up" to me, but they expect me to be this perfect little girl that isn't bad at all. well, that isn't really true. so, i feel like i let people down sometimes...or like they don't know the truth about me. but yeah, i've also definately messed up before in my life. and really, it's really hard...and you feel horrible after doing it...but it's always good when it happenes cause otherwise how would you learn? well, hope this helps a little and that all goes well. good luck!=)
2006-07-16 04:34:15 · answer #1 · answered by Emily H 3 · 6⤊ 2⤋
Yes, dear one, we all make mistakes. We all disappoint our loved ones and forsake trust. You can grow from this.
Stand up and admit your mistake. Do not hide from the embarrassment, but apologize and ask what you can do to redeem yourself.
Maybe you had a weak moment, a lapse in judgment. Do not dwell on the mistake when you apologize. Focus on what you will do to make it right.
Trust is a fragile thing. The only way to build trust once again is be trustworthy. Every time.
May God grant you peace.
2006-07-16 11:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ... and if they truly love you they will let it go and still believe and trust in you - if you can honestly talk to them and say you are sorry and that you didn't mean for things to turn out the way they did. If they can't do that - then they aren't worth stressing over. All people make mistakes - those close to you can accept that and move on.
Just my two cents ...
2006-07-16 11:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by baseballfanmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i lost someone recent cause i messed up really reallly bad, i regret the mistake but ofcourse the hurt just wont allow him to come back to me, we must understand how they feel and what they are going through,. its a double hit for them , the first one being what u did and the second one is that they have to deal with being hurt from a loved one.
its hard. this person trusted me but no longer does
if u love them set them free if it was meant to be they will come back to you.
2006-07-16 11:31:43 · answer #4 · answered by babygal7772002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. People make mistakes. All you can do is try to avoid making the same one again and try to make it up the ones you've disappointed. 'nuff said?
2006-07-16 11:31:52 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Peachy® 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you just need to learn from experience and hope for the better next time. they'll forgive you and get over it because your family(well most of the time).it'll take time to get thier trust backbut it'll be worth it. learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow.
2006-07-16 11:33:22 · answer #6 · answered by legndz09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of times but i work hard to make sure that they see im not so bad and that they can trust me....
2006-07-16 11:30:00 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Raptors Fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you live and you learn.
Mistakes are inevitable. The key is to rebound and learn from those mistakes.
2006-07-16 11:30:02 · answer #8 · answered by LiveNotInFear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes plenty of times
2006-07-16 11:33:23 · answer #9 · answered by daddys lil girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've messed up my whole freaking life.
2006-07-16 11:29:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋