going to marry this month, both of us are virgins,advice meee...?

Answer 1

Have plenty of foreplay, bring some lube (Astroglide) just in case, read the condom directions prior to that day/night, ask the guy to practice putting on a condom also prior to that night, and just take it slow.

Answer 2

I think that it is great that you both are virgins and you should stay that way until after you are married. It is a special gift that you are giving each other. When your wedding night come you should take it slow and not rush into it. Since you are the girl it will hurt the first time but it will get better over time and once the pain is gone you will enjoy yourself.

Answer 3

I agree with 'oldsoul'. I remember my first time. It was with someone I truly loved and it was my decision to do it, not his. In other words, my hormones did all the talking. I knew I was ready before we were in the bedroom. This is a lot of info you may not like to hear, but if it helps then you needed it. Most of those who answered you were right. But I know how you feel, just take it very slow and easy. You may not enjoy it at first, but that is every girl. But trust me, after a couple of go arounds, you two will never leave the honeymoon suite. You'll be stuck to each other like bees on honey. I am so happy for you.

Answer 4

Be gentle with each other at first...especially when it comes to your physical union (honeymoon)! Many couples in your situation find that they're disappointed in the first wedding night(s) because of undue expectations. Since you're both virgins (I commend you for resisting the need for exploration of your sexuality), you will need to go slow and act lovingly toward each other in bed. Try not to 'force' anything at first. Get a couple of books on the subject to read together. Ask questions. Voice your opinion as to what you like...or not. Talking to each other is important, both in the bedroom and out. If you approach this experience like any other one, with love and understanding, you will find that it will be a good one. Good luck and congrats on your upcoming nuptials!

Answer 5

Well you did ask...IMO put off the wedding until you know each other better first...I can't imagine marrying someone I haven't been sexually intimate with first..it really is an important issue. You need to know each other as well as possible and in as many ways as possible so you can make a thorough assessment of whether the marriage could work. Remember the divorce statics in the US is up to almost 60% now.

Answer 6

Go to the library, get some books and educate yourselves.
Don't make your expectations too high. Chances of "it" being perfect the first few times isn't likely. With practice and the willingness to learn together, you'll be just fine.

Congratulations!

Answer 7

"Slow and easy wins the race" is a saying which would apply. You have the rest of your lives, so take the time to make that first night one to remember. Good luck.

Answer 8

Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
That is great.
But for the sex part. You should just explore each other first. Touching and talking. Go slow. Use protection. Your first time will hurt and for him it will be glorious. But go slow and easy. Do not rush anything. Foreplay is the best.

Answer 9

Keep thinking of each other when you two started dating !

dont losse that , too being acustomned to each other , u know like "oh hi how was your day".

Answer 10

Don't rush it (unless you want to). Start exploring eachothers' bodies and do what feels good. Nature will tell you what to do.