please help!!!?

Question

i know o have asked this question multipul times, but ive never got quite the right answer, canu help?


i really want to kiss my bf. we have been going out for over a month now and we havent kissed yet, but i really want to. i love him alot, and i think that kissing him would bring us closer together. i think we havent kissed yet because we are both afraid of what the other person might think. ive asked a question like this before and ppl have just told me to "go for it" but im way to afriand to too afraid to ( yes i have tried to kiss him but i chickened out before i even turned to kiss him!!!). what do you think i should do?

Answer 1

I am not going to tell you to just do it I was just recently been in this situation, Me and my boyfriend have been dating a little over two months and i didnt kiss him till almost the two month mark... See i really was nervous about the whole ordeal... So i wasnt planning on doing it and to let you know we havent kissed since. But when we were together... my bestfriend was joking and said so does she get a goodbye kiss and he said no, ill think about it maybe.... well i was hugging him goodbye and he kiss my neck teasingly and i returned the gesture.Well i looked at him and he kissed me ok it was a joint effort but either way we kissed and well we continued to kiss for about a minute or two even though they were just little pecks it was the fact that it happened that made it worth, Ok well i dunno i think i just rambled but i hope it helps some.... and also heres the point i was originally going to make.... dont let anyone pressure you i dated this one guy off and on for three years before we ever kissed and it was worth it when it happened.. oh and kissing him isnt gonig to make you closer. the fact you to spend time together and get the chance to learn more about each other is what is going to bring you closer together.

Answer 2

You 2 need to talk...if you can't talk about this then your relationship is going to be in trouble. Kissing will bring you closer together because it's intimate and a nice thing. It may be awkward at first but with everything...you get better the more ya do it. But you 2 need to discuss why you haven't kissed yet...he may be just as scared as you. He might be afraid that he would freak you out by making the first move. Communication is really important in a relationship. Good luck...the talk will only help you 2 out. :)

Answer 3

You sound very young. Don't rush into anything. When you're this young, it may SEEM like love, but trust me it's not. Intimacy doesn't necessarily bring you closer together, so just relax and enjoy his company. When the time is right for BOTH of you, a kiss won't feel awkward and it will come naturally, it won't be something you have to get up courage to do!

Answer 4

Look him in the eye - and in a soft whisper say 'Kiss Me' - if he doesn't keep repeating yourself until he either does or he tells you why he doesn't want to. Be assertive, stay calm, keep your voice at a light seductive whisper (practice in the mirror) and when you two are close and alone do it!

Answer 5

Baby relax. get him to a place were u are comfortable. Were u feel right. In otherwords ur happy place. then just calmly turn to kiss him. You'll be fine.

Answer 6

take a deep breath and just remind yourself that if you do it.. you'll get everything you want.. being closer to him.. holding him.. loveing each other.. or if you're too shy you could leave him a note somewhere and let him worry about doing it.. lol.. but seriously.. just relax and look deep into his eyes.. suck it up and do it!!

Answer 7

talk to him. and at one moment just jump right in and kiss him. you are not going to get over it until you do it. good luck