a complete jerk,that he cheats,drinks too much can be abusive,and often does drugs,should I tell his new GF a co-worker of mine,or shall I let her figure it out for herself?
2006-07-16 04:10:54 · 55 answers · asked by Sherry Baby ( Ethan's Mama ) 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BTW I dont want him back i left him and she and i arent friends we just work together
2006-07-16 04:22:48 · update #1
depends on a couple of things. how do you feel about your co-worker, and do you consider your ex dangerous? the latter is the more important, if the answer is at all yes, warn her - even if she doesn't listen.
on the other hand if he isn't dangerous, but you are ambivelent towards her to actually like her, warn her.
but if you don't like her, and he isn't dangerous, let it go. they deserve each other.
2006-07-18 05:54:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
Chances are if you tell the new GF, she'll just think you're jealous. If she ever asks about the realtionship, definately tell her. Or, maybe if you're in a room with her and somebody else sometime, you can make some joke...I saw a TV show last night where the guy was terribly abusive...reminds me of my ex. Something like that. BTW, congrats on getting out of it! Worry about yourself now. Not the new GF.
2006-07-16 04:13:56 · answer #2 · answered by spain_105 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who Cares Hes Your X Let Em Go,Maybe This Girl Will Be Good For Him,Its Always Best To Mind Ones Own Business....
2006-07-16 04:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by dogsx11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can tell her but she will think that you want him so she wont belive it any way I would just let her figure it out for herself
also if you tell her it can cause you some mayhem because you are co-workers you two would probably not be able to do your work right I could not do it
But i wish you the best of luck
2006-07-16 04:17:19 · answer #4 · answered by crystal a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her figure out herself, u dont want to put ur self in this situation. she just might think ur jealous, and u want him back.or it can just get really ugly. n e way how long will it take her to notice? trust me it will be soon. so just leave it be.i noe ur just trying to be a good person, but u noe what always happens when these problems occur! u get the blame. so dont sweat it, i mean how bad can this be? if u left him, and ur fine, im sure she can do the same thing!!
2006-07-16 04:11:45 · answer #5 · answered by hotty♥25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her figure it out for herself,let me tell you something about guys when they with us they treat us bad azz hell,but when they get with someone else they treat them like they're a queen or something.I'm teeling you that's how guys do.So just becuz he was that way to you it does'nt mean he's going to be the same to her.He might stop for her.If she don't know by now maybe they belong together.
2006-07-16 04:15:11 · answer #6 · answered by dccuttie75 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah let this chica find out on her own, their relationship could be different too, he may not act like that with her, and then you go and try to tell her about him, she is going to think that your lying and that your jealous, especially if you two are not that close. Just let her discover this diamond that should stay in the rough!!!
2006-07-16 04:14:51 · answer #7 · answered by Chelly Belly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might make her angry if you start degrading her new boyfriend. She might think that your just jealous and wanting to steal him back. But it wouldn't hurt to keep an eye on things and if you see or hear something you can tell her that he did that when you two were together. It all depends on how close you are and if you honestly think she would appreciate it if you told her some of his past
2006-07-16 04:14:10 · answer #8 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her find out on her own. As tempting as it may be to let her know all the rotten details of your ex it is not your place to tell her or anyone else, you will just come across as looking jealous and bitter. Take the high road on this one!
2006-07-16 04:15:23 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt matter..everything happends for a reason...if you dont tell her she will find out...and learn somthing from it..if you dont she will never have to deal with the extra stress and you will feel better about yourself..but just ask yourself if you really want to tell her to get back at him? thats not the right thing to do..just bring up times that youd do somthing in a conversation and make sure she gets the hint..hes a bad guy...
2006-07-16 04:16:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely mind your own business. You will only cause problems, and you will make an enemy in your workplace. If she ask, you should tell her she is putting you in a bad position, because she will side with him no matter what, and you will look like the jealous ex.
2006-07-16 04:15:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋