He says he wants me to be the (one). We spend a lot of time together. I just don't want to waste any more time
2006-07-16 03:34:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Simply put "no"
2006-07-16 03:37:19 · answer #1 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! NO! NO! Why would you want to sign on for more heart-ache? He is not someone you can trust. If he has cheated on you for at least 3 years he will continue to cheat on you! All that "I want you to be the one" is bullsh*it! Don't believe him. If that were true he would not cheat on you. Think about it: if you wanted a guy to be the one would you cheat on him? You can do better than this guy. Don't you want to be with a man who respects you? Every time your ex cheats on you he is saying "your not enough for me." Trust me move on! He will only bring you heart-ache!
2006-07-16 03:46:08 · answer #2 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the point if he will cheat on you before marriage, he will do it after as well. How come he cheated on you for three years, or did you wait that long to find out.
2006-07-16 03:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by malroymck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, to me that would mean that your the second choice next to the other one.....never.....ignore him until he calls you day and night, then take him back after a long time of you ignoring all of his phonecalls, that would make him feel bad just like you felt, and prove that he was truly sorry, then answer the phone out of the blue, with him begging for forgiveness...
Seriously.
2006-07-16 03:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheat always a cheat Why would you want to pursue a relationship with someone you can't trust. trust is the most important foundation to a great relationship. you can love someone, but without trust there will be lots of problems. do yourself a favor and move on. you wont regret it.
2006-07-16 03:41:12 · answer #5 · answered by eaglerock60 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband cheated on me for about that long and I know what your going through, its been a year since I found out and I can not trust him at all , its going to be a long road ahead for you honey, watch him like a hawk, and get the two of you some counseling, I wish you the best
2006-07-16 03:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by missy h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would you want him back? he obviously is a liar and a cheat. He doesn't respect you he's just using you. Run away from this twirp. Find someone that will love and respect you.
2006-07-16 03:41:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's the reason why he cheated but 2 answer your question no you should'nt take him back more than likely it will happen again 3 years is way 2 long that's like another whole relationship itself
2006-07-16 03:39:17 · answer #8 · answered by TEXXBRATT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater. to steal a phrase," you need to kick him to the curb."he will never respect you enough to stop cheating. you have already proven that it is ok or he would have been out of your life after the first time.your just one of the girls he has sex with but you have had sex with everyone he has been with. i hope you used a condom. guys like him make me sick.you deserve better,good luck with your future.i hope this helps.
2006-07-16 03:46:34 · answer #9 · answered by spocklogical1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offence but he's only telling u that so u don't leave so now u have two things against him so it's a no brainer but i do know how hard it is to let go of someone you've had i your life all this time but it would be better for you
2006-07-16 03:42:14 · answer #10 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted you to be the 'one', you'd be the one. Don't waste your time, he's not worth it.
2006-07-16 03:39:36 · answer #11 · answered by Kali K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋