I was wondering what girls acctaully think about giving oral sex to men. See this is weird maybe, coming from a male, but part of me doesn't like it. I see it as an insult to girls. I may sound whipped, but I think they are more important then us, after all they give life, all we do is destroy it.
Does it feel degrading or insulting to girls when they do that?
(also, I keep wondering why I dont like receiving it, but I have no problem giving it)
Just to clear things up, yes I am straight, Ive been dating my love for 9 1/2 months now.
2006-07-16 03:16:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was expecting an answer like that Dragon, how typical. But no, even though I feel that way, in no way am i gay, acctaully kinda homophobic.
2006-07-16 03:24:11 · update #1
I understand how you feel. I love giving it, but am just learning how to receive it. My BF is the first guy I've been with that really enjoys doing it. I always thought guys just don't like it, but he really enjoys it. I on the other hand love to give it. It really turns me on to know I can excite him that way and it feels very powerful and sexy.
He is working on getting me to relax and enjoy his attentions. It is all about who you are with and how much you want to please them.
2006-07-16 03:26:09 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally I enjoy doing it because I get pleasure from pleasing my man, the only instances when I dislike it is after the first time some guys want that all the time....which makes me not want to do it at all because I feel pressured. However when I feel like doing it I enjoy it immensely, and I get really turned on from it. I have never felt degraded or insulted while doing it for someone I love, but I have been insulted by men suggesting I perform the service for them without getting anything in return solely for thier benefit and without being thier girlfriend or partner...which of course I have never done.
2006-07-16 10:28:09 · answer #2 · answered by Kelly + Eternal Universal Energy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy, may be u think we r civilised and this act is not a appreciable one.
But the fact is that, this fellitio is comming of ages even before stone ages. Older sculptures show these.
As long as the parts are clean and hygine there is nothing wrong init. Even in animals this oral sex exist which is an act of foreplay.Even in human beings this acts as booster and foreplay. U must enjoy it. As long as the women like to perform fellitio there is no insult or such thing. If the like to do it we must like to accept it.
2006-07-16 10:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by naraksab 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I like giving oral because I am a pleaser. I don't find it degrading in anyway. It tastes terrible but that doesn't matter. There are other reason also. I never heard of a guy that didn't like receiving so I can't help you in that area.
2006-07-16 10:26:00 · answer #4 · answered by Becky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dunno... I have never personally given it before. But a guy friend of mine asked me if i would do it to him and i told him no... i felt wierd because i didnt like him like that first of all but also I mean if you look at what people have turned oral sex into it has become a replacement to regular sex for many teenage couples so they wont get pregant. Or if a man feels he couldnt get his woman to have intorcourse they can often make there woman to do oral on them just so they can get some pleasure and have bragging rights to their boys. And that is degrading to a woman. Plus I like your veiws kinda.
2006-07-16 10:27:23 · answer #5 · answered by bookwormforever16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm quite happy to see somebody considering this. I've wondered if guys don't view it as wrong somehow. Kudos to you for being respectful towards females. And for putting up with whatever hateful answers come your way.
I'm only 16, and wouldn't know any "personal experiences" about sex, but of course I'm going to consider the future. And I personally wouldn't want to. It comes from some sense of the guy being overpowering. But that's me, the free spirit. If you're both okay with it, go ahead. Just talk to her and find out. It's supposed to be an enjoyable experience for the two of you.
2006-07-16 10:23:09 · answer #6 · answered by Luminara 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Personally, I enjoy it when the guy is all nice and clean down there. If he isn't, I'll openly refuse to do it. You probably feel it looks wrong to have someone licking you down there, that's why I don't like receiving it. I'm like, "Dude, what are you doing?"
2006-07-16 10:25:56 · answer #7 · answered by minerva779 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do it to pleasure my man. When there is a relationship that is built out of mutual respect for each other, there is no give and take. It's just all give. If you have that kind of relationship, in every aspect of that relationship, it's all pleasure.
2006-07-16 10:23:42 · answer #8 · answered by HoneyBee24-7-365 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is all about pleasing your partner. does your partner get off giving you oral or does she do it because she thinks you like it. i think you and your GF need to talk more about what each of you enjoys. it will bring you closer and sex will get better
2006-07-16 10:26:16 · answer #9 · answered by eaglerock60 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didnt think tha you were gay. Well i like your honesty and all i can say is. in a way it does feel kinda weird! i mean its not bad at times i guess but i have grown to hate it
2006-07-16 10:19:59 · answer #10 · answered by gotchafool05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋