my mom hurt my feelings last night so i angore she just called me today so i try to act cool then she got upset because she think i'm unhappy and she probably feel sorry for herself that she got a unplasent child and she just got a 10,000dollar bag i think she might be crying right now but she never care about my feelings so i didn't call her back. what should i do?
2006-07-16 03:12:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need to sit down and talk with her. Tell her how you feel. Find out why she hurt your feelings. Why she acts like she never cares. Be open, try and put yourself in her place. Have a heart-to-heart. It helps.
2006-07-16 03:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by RandonPerson1 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just try to love each other. She is trying the best she knows how but sounds frustrated. If I could talk to her, I would tell her to say sorry first. But I can't, and someone has to say sorry. I guess that has to be you. Just explain that you know she does her best, that you get frustrated because you still want her to have all the answers like she used to when you were little and the problems were less intense...
I think it is wonderful that you care about your mama's feelings.
You are a good kid. period.
Best of luck to you little one.
2006-07-16 10:19:05 · answer #2 · answered by nik named mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, to get this straight,:: mom called you today after last night, hurting your feelings. you try to tell her everything was fine anyway, but she got upset again with you saying this. what is a 10,000$ bag??(dont understand this one). you think she is crying over you not talking to her today??
call mom back and say that:" you dont like it when she hurts your feelings and how can she not do this anymore." ignoring wont solve anything, try saying this to her, and say:" mom, I dont hate you, I dont like it when you hurt my feelings". see if this works. and after saying this tell your mom ; after she is done talking, that you will talk later, then say bye.
2006-07-16 11:17:40 · answer #3 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her back and tell her exactly how you feel. Sometimes I feel like my mom doesn't care about my feelings but later i find out it was for my own good.
2006-07-16 10:16:51 · answer #4 · answered by xoveexo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her back and talk about somthing dumb, not about feelings or relations, any hobbies? just a short "hey", and then a "gotta run" if you feel the need to cut it short. It is important to patch over petty hurts.
2006-07-16 10:18:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should you care about someone that don't care about you I totally understand that she's your mom but you need to find you love yourself 1st dont put anyone feelings before your own
2006-07-16 10:17:44 · answer #6 · answered by TEXXBRATT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably re-write you question as it makes no sense
2006-07-16 10:15:52 · answer #7 · answered by Sorcha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show your mom some love show her that your there for her
2006-07-16 11:17:48 · answer #8 · answered by lillexis979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her see how it feels but you should call her she is your mother and you are supose to have respect for her
2006-07-16 10:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you try confronting her about it?
2006-07-16 10:15:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋