Even if the girl is right love will still die from routine.....Please answer as honestly as you can.......
2006-07-16 00:06:59 · 13 answers · asked by thnos 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its something known as trust
2006-07-16 00:08:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, but the same size shoe fits you too. Why should men believe women? Now to the assertion that love dies from routine.
When you go to Home Depot to buy a pair of gloves for the garden or for general use, you always buy the pair that fits and is the most comfortable. You never buy a pair, or shouldn't, that is too big or too small. Yet people do this all the time with people. They jump into bed, then they introduce themselves, then they decide they don't like each other, then they do it all over again in a non stop revolving, endless search. Let's face it. Some people fit us better than others. When the fit is good, people label that "soul mates". So the next obvious question is how do you find such a soul mate? Sure, just go to Home Depot and pick one out. Yes, finding a person that fits you is not as easy as it might appear. First of all that good fit won't be perfect, just as you are not perfect. However, relative to other people, this person will fit nicely. The trick is having the patience to wait for him/her. Live life and in your lifetime you might meet one or two that you really have come to regard as a close friend, and it just evolves into a loving relationship. Normally we are impatient and jump into bed with the first thing that is available. We waste our time with gloves that don't fit that we never get one that does fit. We just put up with it because we lack patience and discipline. We settle for a partner because we don't want to be alone or we want sex or we want various needs met. Often times we kill our future to satisfy our NOW. Of course! What passes for love will die from the newness wearing off. Real love is a little more than "feelings". A great deal more. It is rare, but it does exist. Happy is the man or woman who waits for it. Meanwhile, live life. Learn Spanish. Visit Mexico, Guatemala, etc. Learn to fly a plane. Do dog sitting for people on vacations. Go into politics. The sky is the limit.
2006-07-16 00:34:52 · answer #2 · answered by pshdsa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If love has died because of routine...you should change the routine...I've been married for 14 years..Which is more important? Your spouse or your routine? You always risk losing one in favor of the other..which is more important to you.
Love dieing..not here...oh the initial "puppy love/infatuation" is gone but has been replaced by a wonderful form of respect and appreciation for each other. What was once two hands constantly holding each other..is now two hands working both independently and yet in unison with each other towards the same common goals.
That is not to say ALL women or men should be trusted; decent men and women are rather rare commodities these days...choose WISELY...if your right the consequences will last for a lifetime; but if your wrong, they may still last for a lifetime.
2006-07-16 00:21:04 · answer #3 · answered by Kenneth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound quite inexperienced in life to be asking such a pointless, prejudice-laden question.
Many females (of any age) typically band together when frustrated in a relationship and start throwing guilt stones at men. To these women, casting silly aspersions on men as if they were responsible for all their relationship ailments is a way of bonding and building each other up.
If a woman has to resort to prejudices, generalizations and the blame game, she's too inexperienced to be in a serious relationship. Men aren't innocent victims, though, but we men don't usually employ this "bonding" tactic.
2006-07-16 00:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop trusting men, just because you have been hurt in the past by some of them. All men are not the same way.
2006-07-16 00:10:02 · answer #5 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No belief - No friendship
No belief - No relationship
No belief - No dating.
If men ask the same question to you?
Nobody bothers, whether you believe men or not.
They will find somebody who believes them.
2006-07-16 00:14:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because u wanna believe men u closed ur eyes 4 everything u see and just u hear our voice i like that coz im relay big lire with women
2006-07-16 00:13:39 · answer #7 · answered by faris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And why do you, dear woman, generalize your remarks and not confine them to a certain category of men? It takes all kinds, you know !!!
2006-07-16 00:12:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bcoz when you believe someone you bring out the best in them...
2006-07-16 00:12:29 · answer #9 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T...BECAUSE MEN DON'T BELIEVE WOMEN .
2006-07-16 00:27:07 · answer #10 · answered by DUSTY FOR KING 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋