Okay, okay, so in two months of the beginning of the school year, i got 4 guys to like me. Which is crazy, I must admit, cuz I'm 14, only 5'1", and not under 125 like most my other friends (who are actually taller than me, too!). I'm average. But the thing that makes me different (as my friends say) is that I'm fun to be around.
ANYWAY, two stopped liking me after a few months, but one asked me out by note (which i didn't quite respond to), then told me to come outside to have a talk with me. He ended up asking me out without really saying those words, and I messed up huge time by saying maybe again. and again. and again. because i'm was afraid to say no. I said no one day, and to my luck, it was the day he left for his 3-day band trip to disneyland, where, my friend said he was depressed those three whole days.
I have one guy left, which I'm pretty sure I can handle.
But for future reference, what should i do when someone asks me out? Or what to do when some guy likes you?
2006-07-15 23:18:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i guess if im not interested in someone, i would say something like "i think you're really nice, but i think we should stay friends because i don't want to ruin the friendship." or u could say you don't know them that well, and ur just trying to make new friends cuz it's the new school year and u just want to have a chill time getting to know everyone as friends...?
i had a problem like that.. .but it was WORSE cuz it was someone i'd been friends w/ for 1 year and 1/2!!!! i had to tell him that i thought he was really great person, but i just don't like him in that way, and if there was something between us it would've happened a long time ago. he said he was hiding his feelings for a long time, and i just did not know what to do. but my main focus was trying NOT to crush his ego, and to continue emphasizing that he was nice but not my type, and he'd be great boyfriend for someone else, yadayadayada.
2006-07-15 23:29:05 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 19⤊ 3⤋
Try to get to know them better. Learn them. Be witty. Try not to be too sweet by agreeing whatever comes out from their mouth. Let them understand the true you. But be open-minded. Once settled, you'll realise whom to choose. But...to avoid future misunderstandings, you've to let them know you're dating some guys too. The rest is up to them to decide. After all, this is for your own good. Never jump into relationship or you'll might hurt yourself or the other party. Believe in yourself & go for it. Anyway, wish you the best of luck.
2006-07-15 23:43:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys like little girls too!!! you need to decide if you like any of them and if you do then give it a chance.....if not dont hurt ppls feelings cause believe it or not......boys have them too! they might not show it but i have learned the hard way about hurtn ppl and it doesnt feel good. Being a player isnt cool nor is it healthy.. it comes naturally but ur only good when you dont get caught. think about the guy and make ur decisions strictly on ur feelings towards the guy and not bc u feel sorry for him or anything like that.... u need to be open about ur feelings if ur going to b a pimp
2006-07-15 23:27:25 · answer #3 · answered by toker36420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur not interested than say no. the more u lead him on the worst the rejaction will be for him. but let him down easy . rejection can hurt bad enough but but being mean about is just not right. good luck.
2006-07-15 23:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find out more about them dont just say no .Because the more you grow up the harder it is to find a man since they are all connected.Dont look at boys from afar try to know them better.
2006-07-15 23:25:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's better to be the hunter than being the hunted... dump all of them and look for the guy according to your standards.. try going to webdate.com or any sites where in you could get to know more guys to put mystery in your love life and i swear it will be mighty exciting!
2006-07-15 23:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by steller23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you're doing now. become very flattered by it, be happy about that a bunch of guys like you, brag to people about it, and pretend that it's a really BIG problem that you have to deal with and that it's REALLY bothering you.
2006-07-15 23:26:53 · answer #7 · answered by pureessence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say no ,and date only the ones you tuly like
2006-07-15 23:24:28 · answer #8 · answered by lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just arrange a game and tell them you will be with the winner.
2006-07-15 23:21:59 · answer #9 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make new friends
2006-07-15 23:24:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋