should I cheat my boyfriend if I think about sex with this other guy all the time? Isn't that already cheating? Wouldn't it be better if I just do it than keep on thinking about it all the time?
2006-07-15 23:07:43 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well yeah thats not good if ur thinking bout screwing someone else besides ur bf. well if u dont want to be labeled a ho then u need to break up with him. once u do then go 4 it. if u plan on keeping him and doing another guys thats wrong. why drag a guy along if ur cheating him u owe it to him to let him go. so he will not waste no more time on u and find someone who will be faithful and true. either u need to erase those thoughts or let him go.so i hope u do one of those. if u really want to do that other guy then know thats may be all that it is sex and then what ur alone. so know what ur going to lose before u make a move.
2006-07-15 23:13:48 · answer #1 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having the idea of cheating pop in your mind isnt actually cheating yet. Cheating happens when you start entertaining the idea. If you find yourself thinking about it all the time then you actually are cheating. If you ask me, the best course of action to take is to ask yourself first if you are willing to lose your boyfriend. If you answer no, then its already obvious that you should get that idea out of your head and keep being loyal and monogamous. On the other hand, if you answer that its alright for you to lose him, then the fair thing to do is break up with him first then do what you want. Doing it while you're still together isnt the best thing to do because you may end up devastating your boyfriend, someone whom you supposedly love so much.
2006-07-16 01:26:52 · answer #2 · answered by luis 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fantasizing about having sex with someone else is not cheating, in any way. If you cheat on your boyfriend, you will be making a choice that will haunt you forever, whether he finds out about it or not. Sometimes fantasies are better than reality anyway. If you are really so confused that you think you should cheat to avoid fantasizing, I recommend that instead of cheating, you cool things off with your boyfriend and take some time to grow up a little and examine yourself and how you deal with your sexuality.
2006-07-15 23:16:41 · answer #3 · answered by Kerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You first think how will you thinks or feel after being cheated by one whom you love too much. thinking of sex, it might be a natural thing to think such; but you should think twice before doing this. After all there is only one life and it is not like black board where you can write and rub what you have written. Be honest with yourself. Don't ditch anyone. It hurts when you are been cheated and even when you cheat other.
2006-07-15 23:51:02 · answer #4 · answered by crazychori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, you are already cheating him with your thoughts. And i think you shouldn't cheat. If you really like the other guy then give up the other.
2006-07-15 23:11:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! NO. NO, NO. NO. NO,. NO, NO.
don't cheat. thinking is not cheating. if you want to have sex with this guy have the decency to break up with your boyfriend first. wouldn't it just be better if you didn't have to sneak around and make sure he didn't find out.
cheating is so bitchy.
2006-07-15 23:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO,it isn't cheating at all .let me know if you need a volunteer to help you with this. besides, im sorry to inform all of these people that are pounding you.but if its just a boyfriend then it isn't cheating.you can only cheat on a spouse. let me see i dont think you ever took any vows before a judge, a priest ,or your god that said you would only be with him did you?
2006-07-15 23:18:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That si not cheating, it is fantasizing...and every one does that....would you like it if you boyfriend cheated on you? You are not allowed double standards in a relationship....if you would not mind him cheating....then do what you will, if you would be upset, then just keep fantasizing
2006-07-15 23:13:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...you should cheat.
I think it's a required step in maturity.
You need to learn the damage that your mistrustful act conveys so that with the next boyfriend; you have a greater sense of yourself, your self worth, and a greater sense of value for the relationship you're in.
2006-07-15 23:12:11 · answer #9 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are thinking of cheating on your b/f then just break it off as you will just hurt him even more if he found out. You must not be really happy in the relationship if you are thinking that.
2006-07-15 23:12:03 · answer #10 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋