im 13 y/o and this guy is an aquaintance and he just barley turned 18 and we have a lot in common. i want to date to him and i think he might feel the same way is it ok. i mean we haven't talked about it yet because im not sure how'd he feel about it b/c of my age. and how society would look at it. i mean i dont want people to think he's a pedefile or some sick pervert.
2006-07-15 22:37:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think it's ok if you two go for a date..that would be soo..sweet!
2006-07-15 22:40:44 · answer #1 · answered by dreamer_gerl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Legally it would not be okay until you turn 16 and then you can date him with parental permission as long as you don't sleep together. It's all about maturity as far as I am concerned. If you guys are at the same maturity then why not. But to give you hope I had a crush on this guy sense he was 13 and I was 18 and I didn't tell him because I knew nothing could come of it. But now I am getting together with him and I'm 26 and he's 21 and everyone is cool with it lol I guess what I am saying is you can also wait until the time is right it might work out years from now but for now date guys your own age just to amuse the adults lol.
2006-07-15 22:48:05 · answer #2 · answered by blue_dragoness5695 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gonna inform you precise now. you're too youthful for that. The age difference ( and in all probability the adulthood) between a 13 365 days previous and a 17 365 days previous are gentle years. men at that age are not precisely straightforward . believe me, i'm a woman it relatively is 17 i might understand. you do no longer understand what he's performed, he's plenty older than you, and he ought to. ought to. stress you into doing some thing you do no longer choose to, and you'd be wanting to do what he says just to maintain him liking you. do no longer say you will no longer have intercourse. almost each woman that finally ends up having intercourse has that comparable menatlity you do. you do no longer understand until eventually you're in the region. basically be smart. think of of the experts and cons. basically dont get harm. solid success :)
2016-10-07 23:38:10 · answer #3 · answered by mauzon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to find out what you gain and what u lose in this friendship. Are you mentally old enough to sense between a man looking only for sex with a respectful man? if yes, go ahead. normally in these situations, mums are best to help you.
2006-07-15 22:42:24 · answer #4 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're only just thirteen years old. Eventhough you like him, and he likes you, you should not be rush like that. I think it's too soon. But, I'm not suggesting you to love or like no one. I'm just suggesting you to wait for a while. Maybe when you're seventeen years old. Yes, seventeen is nice, actually. Don't be so rush at the moment, or you'll get lost.
2006-07-15 22:43:07 · answer #5 · answered by little bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is truly just a number. But that implys when you get a little bit older right now it could be your just a shad to young.
2006-07-15 22:45:04 · answer #6 · answered by ted b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its wrong.
any 18 year old guy that needs to look for girlfriends at a childrens school is wrong!
2006-07-16 03:57:28 · answer #7 · answered by Matthew H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its definataly not ok try and find someone within three years he could do alot of time then have to register as a sex offender for life
2006-07-15 22:45:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess ur to small but if u like him and he likes u then damn with the age it doesnt mater only if he really loves u. and tell him that ur not allowed to have sex till ur 16 so tell him no funny stuff just normall dates!! good luck gurl (u'll be needing it!!)
2006-07-15 22:42:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your just looking to sleep with him go for it. but if u want a relationship ur not gonna find one.
2006-07-15 22:41:14 · answer #10 · answered by Neb a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋