How do you know that a guy really sincerely wants to be more then friends? I'm 19 this year and I've been thru lots of relationship that doesn't last.To me those are just puppy love. But i'm looking at life seriously now and i can be considered quite matured for my age.Do you think that i'm ready for a real long term relationship?how do you know you're ready? What kind of other factors you need to consider before going into a long term relationship?
And another thing. Most guy i know are such sweet talkers but how do know who is serious about you?Im really confused now...
2006-07-15 22:27:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have to pray and you ask that from God. only HE knows who's right for you and HE will give you one when you're ready because only HE knows if you're ready or not. dont try to test the waters on your own knowledge and basing on your experiences..because that's different. and God's thoughts are higher than ours, HIS words are deeper than ours, HIS love is stronger than ours...so what i mean is that you should consult the ONE who knows everything and only wants the best for you. you are HIS princess and HE cares about you. don't use your own judgment when deciding on things like that, because you can only commit a mistake ONCE. better not commit a mistake or you'll regret it all your life. connect with the source of everything. HIS plans for you are to prosper you, to give you a life and a hope.
2006-07-15 22:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jacqueline 3 · 8⤊ 2⤋
Well darling, there is no guarantee for success when it comes to love. If you are as mature as you feel you are, then trust your instinct's. Do not be swayed by sweet talk. Actions speak louder than words...much louder.
Instead of looking for love, concentrate on other matters that are important to you. Let love find you and be very particular. Don't just except what men tell you, ask questions, maintain eye contact ( there are books which can help you determine if someone is lying), and don't just go for the bull___t.
Take time and write out a list of the things you want out of a relationship...what you will accept and what you won't tolerate. Raise your awareness level and self assurance. Take your time before engaging in sex and see how he handle this.
Lastly, if you find that you have made a mistake in judgment, take a back step...move on...and learn from that experience.
2006-07-15 23:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your past boyfriends weren't abusive or controlling then you're ready for long-term commitment. It is that simple. As long as you know you want to be with someone then you're ready. Now you want to know if guys are being sweet talkers or are actually interested. Well, I think it can depend on where you're picking up guys. If you're going to a local bar, then you're prolly better off spending the night at home (unless you want a one night stand). Try meeting guys from friends. Once you met a guy take your time with it. Most guys who are just being sweet talkers will probably not care to stick around too long so if they arn't getting any after a couple of dates they'll be out (which is good! You're filtering the bad from the good!) Just don't be harsh to every guy you meet. Datings fun! No need to be overly-serious about it! Just date guys and have fun. The ones who stick around with you are the ones you want to keep. Good luck!
2006-07-15 22:39:38 · answer #3 · answered by Jon J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wait if I was you...well that's hindsight speaking, cause I was married young, really wish I wasn't. You have so much to experience in life yet. At your age most guys are only interested in one thing. Your right, sweet talkers, that's all they are.
2006-07-15 22:35:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
am 19 too,i want to be in long term ralatinship...but sometimes i say am just too young for all that **** i have to get mature first....so my advice just wait untill really know how u judge the people
2006-07-15 22:37:40 · answer #5 · answered by xsxsxsx36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, find out why are yours `lots of relationship' that doesn't last for you. Be true to yourself. Later , you may understand yourself better to find a true relationship. Best of Luck
2006-07-15 22:36:41 · answer #6 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although you may be mature for your age, don't rush it!! I know it's a cliche' but you'll know when the right one comes along.
2006-07-15 22:31:48 · answer #7 · answered by mzindependant 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try me !!!!!!!!
iam v serius looking 4 serius people
2006-07-15 22:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by wdannan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋