I am having an affair with a married man. He told me that his marriage with his wife is not working and they would soon be getting a divorce. However, he is asking me for some time to settle the divorce before marrying me. I am not sure whether to trust him on this, that he is going to divorce his wife and marry me. Another thing is, if he really marries me, I am not sure whether I can trust him not to have another fling behind my back? How do I know whether I can trust this man? Help me please. I truly love him and I can't break off from him.
2006-07-15 21:59:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not with married man,please. Get out of this mess of your as soon as possible.
Counselling and friends support helps.
2006-07-15 22:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents have a good friend who is having an affair with a married man. He promised her two years ago that he would divorce his wife after his daughter's Bat-Mitzvah, however, the event came and went and nothing happened. He is still with his wife, still having an affair, she still loves him, he still claims to love her, but he did not and probably will not divorce. Spare yourself the years of torment, move on from him. I know it will be hard, but find a guy who is either serious about marrying you (and maybe this guy is), or an available guy.
Good Luck and sorry about the predicament.
2006-07-15 22:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by shachar86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there. Chances are, he is not going to divorce his wife. Married men just say that their marriage is so bad so that they have an excuse to cheat. And if he has cheated WITH you, he will cheat ON you. I don't want to be mean but I have been in a similar situation. My advice would be to move on. You are just going to have a heartbreak.
2006-07-16 00:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by meb06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but both parties involved and the whole situation sounds like a big LOSER. why would you get involved with a married man in the first place? i can't help but say that if he does marry you, which i honestly don't think he will that he'll cheat on you too. and maybe you'll have had that coming.....
2006-07-15 22:16:59 · answer #4 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you really have to ask yourself...can you trust him i mean he is cheating on his wife you never know he could cheat on u...but i really don't know about this guy so i cant say much but if you love him the first thing in love is trust...hope this kinda helps
2006-07-15 22:08:14 · answer #5 · answered by april 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he did it to his wife there is the possibility that he might cheat on you too. you need to talk to him and ask him how you're gonna know that he's trustworthy..how is he going to show you that you dont have to worry about anything.
2006-07-15 22:04:18 · answer #6 · answered by scrazygirl25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words. So no you cant trust him. People dont change he did it to her, now it will be you.
2006-07-15 22:17:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋