Will you lose your interest in having sex with your wife or girlfriend after some time,if it gets so,what shall we do?
2006-07-15 21:36:38 · 12 answers · asked by soroush_1363_ss 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are in a long term relationship, you might run that risk. You also have the option of emphasizing the true understanding and trust of two people who know each other well. You know the other person's signs and signals. You can experiement with ideas and fantasies and "toys" that you might not consider using with someone you barely know.
It's the time to explore ways of being sexual with each other that you haven't tried yet.
Role playing works for some people - pretend you are in a different situation or are different people.
Be creative - and COMMUNICATE. Good luck and have fun.
2006-07-15 21:43:42 · answer #1 · answered by lrad1952 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Sex' usually does become rather ordinary...........after a while........which is a very vague time-span based on many variables.
And, since there are at least two participants, one must consider the question from different aspects: has 'IT' become dull/routine for you? Has The Wild Thang become not-so-wild for your partner(s)? Has the fire died down for all of you at the same time and/or separately?
I had a [beautiful female!] Psych Prof who gave me a neat nugget to ponder, a lil something to keep the edge [gawd-damn! she loved to phuck!] ~~ remind yourself that pure, animalistic sex --yes, even bestiality -- on a level 'way below "making love" -- will always remain fiery if you keep telling yourself, "Properly viewed, ALL is lewd!" Think of romping around as being sinful, dirty and........FUN!
(Sex with a condom is like washing your feet with your socks on.)
Show me a fellow who doesn't eat his girl and I will show you a woman I can steal.
s/s William Claude Duncanfield
Another mental prod, for either/both/all participants is to keep in the back of the mind the thought that this may the last time you will ever have to get your rocks off and/or help your significunt other get off, also.......
The only consideration I personally know of, that has prevented 'sex' from becoming the least bit "ordinary", is so smarmy and mawkish that it's almost embarrassing to mention it. Butt, here cums: [and I know this is corny] if -- IF -- there is truly an all-consuming love, even if it is in only one of you, the sex will probably continue to equal the first time you were ever together.
Not just '*******', not even making love.......but the MEMORY of making love is about the only thing that is truly eternal
2006-07-16 05:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is never boring, and if becomes ordinary, then you need to spice it up. You can read books on ideas and what would be mutually agreeable to both of you.
If you are very young, you shouldn't be asking this question, learning about sex is the greatest pleasure on earth.
2006-07-16 04:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are 3 kinds of sex u have in a relationship
#1 everywhere anywhere sex ; because thats where you have it
#2 bed room sex ; because after being together for some time thats where you always seem to have sex
#3 hallway sex ; after your together along long time you just pass each other in the hall way an say " f-u " , F-u!!
2006-07-16 04:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by BIGRED 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex will get ordinary if you *let* it. That is something you have 100% control over.
2006-07-16 05:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It won't get ordinary, if you work at keeping things fresh and alive.
2006-07-16 04:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by Irish_bi_female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. if this happens find new places to make love, consider different positions of love making. make lovemaking interesting with ur imagination
2006-07-16 04:41:27 · answer #7 · answered by angelic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yes that's what happened to me good luck
2006-07-16 04:45:21 · answer #8 · answered by Mr KNOWITALL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah!
Good luck!
2006-07-16 04:41:33 · answer #9 · answered by tspbrady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try experimenting with different things, such as positions, role playing, etc,
2006-07-16 04:40:15 · answer #10 · answered by breni03_bsb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋