kind of be dating a guy but not going out...and have someone else on the side as a **** buddy?
2006-07-15 21:17:49 · 20 answers · asked by sunshineissweeter 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
???How can you be "dating and not going out"???? It sounds as if you have 2 F*** buddies.......which is just confussing. Pick the one you like the best and work on a relationship.
2006-07-15 23:15:59 · answer #1 · answered by A charmed one 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't ask us. Ask the guy you will be "dating" with. Ask him if he thinks it's fine that you guys don't go out and that you have a **** buddy. If he's fine with it. Then sure, why not, no harm to the guy or you. But if you want to know my opinion, it sounds silly that your saying you are dating a guy but your not going out with him. Cuz it's either you are really and fully going out with each other or your not. But you can't say you are dating if you guys aren't doing anything!
It sounds like you guys just like each other but both of you are not making any effort in trying to take out the other person for a night out somewhere fun. And if none of you amkes the move, then you guys shall forever be just a crush couple but not boyfriends and girlfriends. Because in my opinion, a guy and girl has to actually GO OUT together to be confirmed as boyfriends and girlfriends. So i guess what i'm saying is, no it's not ok haha. Your either in it big time, no wishy washy "kind of dating" or your not.
And if none of you still wana acknowledge ya wanna take the other person out somewhere for a date. Then forget about it. Your gonna be stuck running in circles for a long time.
2006-07-15 21:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by Ally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on people this is 2006 not 1924. You go for it. Have ur cake and eat it too. Hell ya only live once and if ur happy and u aint in a full time relationship with either person then go for it. Dont let people judge u on it. Alot of people these day live very happy lives in open relationships. One small peice of advice though just do it safely. There are too many diseases out there.
2006-07-15 21:26:18 · answer #3 · answered by NastiGurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would think w/ hiv/aids out there that the man you are "kind of dating" has the right to know & would want to know if your sleeping w/ someone else for his own health.it's only right to let both guys know. If he can't handle it then move on or dump the f...buddy.
2006-07-15 21:23:41 · answer #4 · answered by andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only ok if your "dating" situation is open and not misunderstood to be exclusive. But multiple partners runs many risks!
I don't care what the situation is, get tested and keep track and be careful.
2006-07-15 21:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by Chiky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how are u dating a guy but not going out with him that doesn't make any sense at all
2006-07-15 21:21:53 · answer #6 · answered by shredder97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhm... how could you say "dating" w/o being together. well, you could date inside you house...
have someone else as f### buddy? that's ok.
2006-07-15 21:20:29 · answer #7 · answered by ravencracks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bleagh!
2006-07-15 21:20:05 · answer #8 · answered by Patrick M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um... if you have a ***buddy... why you bother about some moral, and what is OK or what is not? enjoy your time, with whom ever, don't spoil your worthy ***time with asking if that's good, or this's bad... u'll do it anyway...
2006-07-15 21:26:26 · answer #9 · answered by zaraza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO....unless you are being COMPLETELY honest with both of them.
Guys SAY they are OK with things, but really, they start dissin' you and you loose on both ends.
2006-07-15 21:20:38 · answer #10 · answered by Dolphin lover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋