I am in my teens, and when I go to sleep i feel that i should think of a sexy dream,is it not good for me ?,if so i shuld stop it.how? please give me advice.i want a good answer,and i am a girl,i have finished my studies at school.thank you.
2006-07-15 21:17:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Just be yourself, nothing wrong with that!
2006-07-15 21:22:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to tell the truth, I have the same thing happen to me. But I have thought about it and what I have come up with is very simple. Of course, if you want to think about sex it is okay. It certainly doesn't make you a sinner.
But what I have found is that when I am thinking of my day or what I will do tomorrow, it is the same as worrying. That way I can't sleep. When my mind is able to step outside of my problems, doing anything at all that requires my imagination to do it, I can fall asleep very quickly.
Sex is the first thing that comes to mind because it is natural. I also think about playing billiards or bowling, or having a drink at a club. I think, too, in my imagination, that I am on the floor of one of the exchanges and I am trading with all these shouting men around me.
As long as I get away from what has happened and what will happen and use my imagination, I can sleep very well. Try it and see if it works.
Best of luck to you!
2006-07-16 04:25:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read a book away from the subject SEX something that will take your mind off it. There is nothing of dreaming sexy dreams, these are called fantasies. Every one has fantasies but you are too young to be exposed on these. There mare many things you can do to make you fall asleep without thinking about your dreams/imaginations
2006-07-16 04:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by trykindness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its quite normal to have sexy and erotic dreams. Its just your mind trying to explore something that you may not have experienced much of. Enjoy it. If you arent enjoying it then perhaps talk to a close friend about it. You might find that you both have the same thing in common.
2006-07-16 04:24:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on many things. A walk hand in hand on a isolated, pristine, sun-drenched beach with your lover is in my mind the start of a sexy dream. For others, a walk, butt-naked through Times Square with spikes, piercing clad group of perverts is a sexy dream.... They thoughts of the mind is something that one can not control. Actions, however, can be controlled- acted on or not acted on- depending on ones constitution.
2006-07-16 04:26:12 · answer #5 · answered by ••Mott•• 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It perfectly okay to have sexy dreams, hey it is something to look forward to when you head off to sleep. Mine always stars Danny Masterson (Hyde) from "That 70's Show"
Dream on girl!!!
2006-07-16 04:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by starrdurden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might sound strange, but it is a great way to solve this issue (I do not want to call it problem!).
Get a book about Epicurus. He was an ancient philosopher! He is going to guide you to more freedom, Independence, happiness, ..., that you could ever imagine!
2006-07-16 04:22:45 · answer #7 · answered by soubassakis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore it... think of better things.u cant eliminate it but u can avoid thinking about it so often.. and really its very normal to have such dreams everyone does... but dont let them take over ur thinking.. just do what u think is right morally and dont take the crap advice given my many perverts at yahoo answers...
u rule ur life.
good day
2006-07-16 04:22:09 · answer #8 · answered by greenprincess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't judge your impulses as being bad...
If you let religious beliefs or superstitions determine your behavior, you will only suffer.
Also remember that even fruit has to take its time to ripen, you can't force it to be ready, when it isn't.
If your imaginations disturb you, focus on reality, until they go away!
2006-07-18 14:45:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as the other friends said, It's normal, but you can get rid of it by reading a book (no sexy one) or listen to some music or radio!
2006-07-16 04:25:59 · answer #10 · answered by arezoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm ..... you sound really young. A healthy imagination is a good thing and having fantasies is normal. Maybe you need to talk to a doctor if it bothers you this much.
2006-07-16 04:22:48 · answer #11 · answered by kmach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋