His wife threw him out after discovering the truth, I've talked to her, and she said it's been the third time he's betrayed her, so she dumped him. I'm mad at him for not telling me he's married, but I still love him, though I feel kind of repulsed by him... is it ok to still have contact with him, even just as "friends"? She's told me a lot of stuff about him which I don't know if it's true, and which he denies, so I don't know whom to beleive anymore.
2006-07-15 21:13:11 · 11 answers · asked by pacosu78 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No need to get that sarcastic corwinnn! :-)
2006-07-16 02:50:27 · update #1
Take him back... and then I have some fantastic beach-front property to sell you, because I think you're the smartest girl on the planet.
2006-07-15 21:20:37 · answer #1 · answered by corwinnn 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
If his wife "dumped" him for cheating on her with three woman than I would say do yourself a favor and forget about this guy!!! Grab some self respect!! Look yourself in the mirror and tell yourself that you are worth allot more than this! Dump his ***!! You can do a lot better than what this cheater can give you!! Once a cheater always a cheater. You need to find someone who will "really" love you for yourself and the wonderful person you really are!! Don't ever sell yourself short!
2006-07-16 04:22:45 · answer #2 · answered by Dream Police 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a real winner. Quit talking about what is wrong with your boyfriend and look at what you are doing. You know he is married so why are you still hanging around? You are the enabler in this. Let him do what he is going to do with someone else. And let his wife handle the situation. You need to deal with your own life and stop messing with other people's.
2006-07-16 04:19:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that if he could cheat on his wife 3 times, there's nothing stopping him from putting you through that same pain. If you feel that you could maintiain a friendship with him and not get hurt, then there should be no harm. Just keep yourself from getting hurt.
2006-07-16 04:16:32 · answer #4 · answered by LTD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,because then he'll marry you and there will be another woman and I'm sure you'll get pissed off but you won't be able to.Because you once was the other woman.
2006-07-16 04:17:34 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Music Whore♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's going to do you the same way. As a matter of fact, you are probably not his only girlfriend. Let him go. You deserve better.
2006-07-16 04:16:30 · answer #6 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, take him back so you can know the pain of being cheated on.
2006-07-16 04:17:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like you need to take some time to get over him and then maybe you can be friends... just tell him that you need your space right now
2006-07-16 04:16:34 · answer #8 · answered by *~Rachel~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe her since he has PROVEN that he is a liar.If you take him back then you deserve each other.
2006-07-16 04:17:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Why would you want an obvious cheater? If he did it to her, nothing stopping him from doing it to you.
2006-07-16 04:16:43 · answer #10 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋