2006-07-15 21:03:40 · 29 answers · asked by robbie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES
As at the moment it sounds as if you are just using your present girlfriend
Tell her there is somone else you like better
SO YES dump her
Then when you ask the other girl I hope she says
F...off arseh-le
Then your old girlfriend might have found BETTER someone who will not USE HER and be happy
meanwhile you will be
2006-07-15 22:04:34 · answer #1 · answered by itsa o 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Definitely, if you are sure. You should think on every aspect very carefully, then make a decision.
The most important thing is the virtual girl that you are seeking, which comes from your own personality. You should know this. You should know what kind of a girl do you like and what do you want from a girl.
And believe me, once the thought of break-up appeared, is a bad sign. A relationship, wich is good, but at the same time you do not feel satisfied can cause a lot of trouble, because you are not totally happy. It makes you vulnerable to temptations.
And you should differentiate between love, attraction, seduction, compatibility of personalities (the traits that you and your girl have) and sex.
So, if you are sure, your relationship is good, but not good enough, put an end to it, and then be sincere as much as possible.
2006-07-15 21:51:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. Depends if, even if you did not like someone else you would still want to break up with your gf. If you think you would then you should, but if not then it's prob just guilt at being attracted to someone else. Wait it out. If the feeling passes all well and good if not then your heart will decide for you. But you need to know that even married people do get attracted to other people especially when going through a rough patch, but you have to try to work it out. Don't get into the habit of bailing out at the first sign of trouble. You will never sustain a relationship that way and will not be happy in the long run. Good luck.
2006-07-15 22:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by Valli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't "dump" her, be kinder than that. How about explaining that you want to be honest. You thought she might be "the one" but now you met this other woman who you think is "all that and a bag of chips." She will be upset at first but she will be able to get over you faster with the truth. Don't cheat her out of the truth as well. Do unto others is a great rule to use here.
Been there, not fun. I would have liked to hear the truth no matter how painful.
Don't be jerk. This is an opportunity to do the right thing.
Good luck.
2006-07-15 21:12:02 · answer #4 · answered by Polly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what you mean by liking... You're always going to find yourself attracted to other people from time to time, no matter who you're with.
But relationships are about commitment. They're about making a decision to love and respect one person no matter what, and if you've made that kind of commitment to your current girlfriend, then you stick to it. If you havent' then maybe this is the time to valuate your relationship and see how far you're ready to go with her.
If you find that she's not the one you want to give your all to, then the right thing to do is to end your relationship with her. After that, if you still fancy the other girl, you're free to do so. But again, you need to ask yourself if you're ready to be committed to her before you start playing with her heart.
I think in any relationship you need to think what is best for the other person at all times. Not what YOU really feel like doing.
All the best,
RachelK
2006-07-15 23:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by RachelK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY SHOULD THS THOUGHT EVEN ENTER YOUR HEAD. NEVER DUMP A LADY COS YOU WONT KNOW WHEN THE ONE YOU LOVE WILL DUMP YOU.
DONT TELL HER ANYTHING BUT STAY A BIT AWAY FROM HER FOR THE TIME BEING, TELL HER YOU ARE BUSY SO YOU CANT BESEEING HER AS OFTEN AS YOU USED TO. THEN NOW YOU CAN EXPERIMENT YOUR NEW CATCH. IF YOU FIND OUT THAT YOUR NEW CATCH IS BETTER THAN THE OLD ONE THEN YOU CAN GET ON BUT IF YOU FIND OUT THAT SHE IS WORSE THEN SANKOFA(GO BACK FOR YOUR OLD GIRL).
YOU CANT JUST DUMP THE DEVIL YOU KNOW FOR AN ANGEL YOU DONT KNOW. TAKE MY ADVICE IF YOU WISH BUT REMEMBER DON 6 WARNED YOU
2006-07-15 23:03:02 · answer #6 · answered by mthunderluv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-07-15 21:06:04 · answer #7 · answered by God 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldnt break up with your girlfriend. if shes a good person who isnt cheating on you and truly cares about you no! now this other girl you like how you know once you get to know her she dont have a nasty attitude. she might break your heart, step on it, you might like this girl now but in a couple months she might like someone else and dump you and then youre gonna be looking crazy! well goodluck dont say i didnt warn you!
2006-07-15 21:08:14 · answer #8 · answered by brownsugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to girlfriend about what you like about this other person and not mentoioning this other person but only the qualities maybe your girlfriend will take you being open to her and you may see thoose qualities in girlfriend.
The someone elce could be just infatuation wich is temporary!
2006-07-15 21:09:15 · answer #9 · answered by Support Our Troops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wHAT'S THE USE OF BEING WITH YOUR GIRL FRIEND IF YOU LIKE SOMEONE ELSE...THAT'S NOT FAIR ON HER. YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN.
IF YOU DONT LOVE HER ANYMORE. AND WANT TO MOVE ON. LET HER KNOW HOW YOU FELL. BE HONEST. ITS HOW YOU FEEL IN YOU HEART IS THE RIGHT THING TO DO.
AND ALSO THINK ABOUT WHAT IF ONE DAY SHE CAME UP TO YOU AND SAID THAT SHE LIKE SOMEONE ELSE AND WANTS TO END IT. PUT YOURSELF IN HER SHOES.
AND ON THE OTHER HAND IF YOU DON'T FEEL ANYTHING FOR HER ANYMORE.
DUMP HER THEN. DONT LEAD HER ON, CHEAT ON HER AND PLAY HER FOR A FOOL. DO THE RIGHT THING. OBVIOUSLY YOU HAVEN'T BEEN FOR HER FOR LONG. SO I GUESS YOU CAN KEEP YOUR OPTIONS OPEN. IT'S UP TO YOU.
2006-07-15 21:08:44 · answer #10 · answered by blah blah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋