2006-07-15 21:01:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some couples who do that are very strong, have met some and they were very loving and they do different things with partners...
But both have th be the right person. He probably told you that to be honest and to see if you would be upset.
So it means he is looking for someone like him (like most people go with those with something in common)
Some couples try this at some point in their lives but they have lots of ground rules as to how far either can go and have strong relationships. And aint kids either... thats a grown up thing not young or mid or really mid to late teen thing.
You have to be very careful with stds of course... so whats the club like? std checks?
And will it suit you and could you cope with the jealousy...
And if one don't like it anymore and the other does what will happen then...
So dont say know but have a think...
Some would love others watching them do it. Possibly as they were the ugly one in school and now a swan its like check out me I GOT THE HOT GUY OR GIRL.
Or maybe want ti to be like when they used to hang out with friends and made out next to them and prefer things like that not qiet at home.
Maybe still like partying...
So swingers are not bad people... just make sure its what you want... hell you could have lots of fun and discover new things about you...
Just have a good think...
As said some have had lots of fun, for others it was a stage in their lives, others broke up over it...
Or ended up with one of the swingees and left partner
2006-07-16 00:27:01 · answer #1 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, we're going to tell you from our point of view as swingers....
We don't think you should go. The reason why is because in order to be swingers, you need to be secure in your relationship. If you've just met this guy, you're not at a stage in your relationship where you can feel secure enough with each other in order to watch the other person have sex, let alone you have sex with another person you've just met.
It took us a long time to feel comfortable enough with ourselves as individuals and as a couple before we started swinging.
If you have any questions or want to ask what swing clubs are like, please feel free to contact us.
2006-07-20 11:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU HAVE JUST MET A GUY who likes swingers clubs
#Your asking if you should go
Well that is your choice YOU decide
I do know that if you did your NOT the sort of woman I would want to take home to meet my parents
If you had been in a relationship for years and thought about other things to do with each other that's different.
BUT
YOU HAVE JUST MET THE GUY
So what sort of a woman can he think you are
Cheap in fact dirt cheap
A slapper
Easy
Think first then tell him
TO SLING HIS HOOK
or be A polite LADY and just say FUCKOFF
ARSEH_LE
2006-07-16 04:22:30 · answer #3 · answered by itsa o 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, If you are open minded, relaxed with your own body, and want to have fun then a swingers club might do it for you.
I myself enjoy the swingers clubs.
You only live once if you don't try you'll never know!!
But do make sure your safe use your own condoms! Don't put yourself in danger, go to a licenced house.
2006-07-16 09:38:55 · answer #4 · answered by razza raych 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you just met him and he wants to take you to a swingers club...hmmmmmmmmm Tells me what he thinks of you and its not very good. Why go out with someone like that? Do it if it floats your boat, maybe you'll find a real date there....
2006-07-16 04:06:39 · answer #5 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants you to go to swinger clubs, make sure you get him to go with you to the Clinic.
2006-07-16 04:06:43 · answer #6 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just my own opinion. It is not good idea to join him. There are so many consequences that you will encounter. Just live a clean life and you will have a peace and quite conscience that's for you to keep forever.
2006-07-16 04:19:14 · answer #7 · answered by cndyci 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's open and told you this already then he must trust you enough to invite you. Maybe he thinks you'd enjoy it?
2006-07-16 04:15:41 · answer #8 · answered by clare b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes older than you no if hes younger no if hes round about the same age yes
2006-07-16 04:07:06 · answer #9 · answered by robbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that is your cup of tea go for it little lady
2006-07-16 04:05:39 · answer #10 · answered by sicivic05 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋