I always get nervous and really scared and shy..
2006-07-15 20:55:52 · 17 answers · asked by $_$ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tequilla
2006-07-15 20:57:06 · answer #1 · answered by Gynolotrimena Lubriderma-Smith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always easier to talk to a crush if you know a friend of his. That way the friend can introduce you to your crush..and you can hang around the guys without it being awkward. OR you can always go up to talk to your crush with a friend..maybe a friend who is more of an extrovert and not so shy. That way you wouldnt feel too nervous because at least you have someone there for support.
2006-07-15 21:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by scrazygirl25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, the girl(Im a male.Im just on my sister's account) was my crush then I was already friends with her, so it made it easier to let her know.I have went through this before.Best friends now,thats a different story,you have entered the friend zone."Just Friends" has some seriousness to it.With my story I was best friends with the girl but I was very overweight..I lost the weight and we continues
2006-07-15 21:15:03 · answer #3 · answered by ashleyrcombs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, obviously if you try a friend to talk to him, It will make you think that your too shy to do it yourself. You have to be courageous enough to just go up and just talk to him slowly. Start a easy conversation with him. It wasn' easy for me to do it with my girlfriend at first, becuase I was obviously too shy to even say hi to her. When it came to prom though, SHE had to DRAG ME onto the dance floor to slow dance. You may be shy, but guys can often more shy than girls.
2006-07-15 20:59:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes the only thing you have to fear is fear itself. I suggest you just be up front with this guy and tell him how you feel. if he's the guy of your dreams he will answer you with the respect that you deserve, if he doesn't than you at least know that this guy was not the guy you had imagined him to be. But hopefully by you talking to him and tellin him your feelings he will be forced to acknowledge how you feel and hopefully respond back feeling the same way about you. good luck
2006-07-15 21:00:26 · answer #5 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes nervous and shy is cute, let that work for you. Plus I am sure he won't bite just go for it! I bet you would feel a whole lot better.
2006-07-15 20:58:57 · answer #6 · answered by starrdurden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could always write a secret admirer note to try and help gain the courage to aproach him.
2006-07-15 20:59:14 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Music Whore♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw caution into the wind. Just strike up a casual conversation about...something.
Let your trueself shine through, and you won't have any reason to be shy with him/her again =)
Whatever you do, don't act in a way that you THINK they would want you to act. =( You'll only be cheating yourself luv.
cheers!
2006-07-15 20:58:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get in front of a mirror and remind yourself of all your positive aspects that way, you might gain enogh self confidence to talk to him.
2006-07-15 21:00:49 · answer #9 · answered by Kit Untz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right when u see him and u feel its time to do it but u feel shy or somthing just hold ur breath for a second and imagin him making love to someone else!!!
belive me u'll do it!
2006-07-15 21:02:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋