Ok i've known this guy for almost two years and we have just been talking for the past two months and just two weeks ago things started to get more serious (as in hanging out everyday, hanging around family all the time, just being closer together in general) ok well this guy i have always thought to be a genuine guy i could trust i always appreciated him and never did i think i would be with him i wasn't attracted to him taht way but thats what happened..ok now that things are serious i see a myspace for him and there is a girl on there that he talks to and i see his picture on this girls page with him and her together and i'm freaking out my stomach hurts and i wouldn't be but this is ONE GUY i thought would never be this way and i don't know if i'm making too much out of it but what should i do...what questions do i ask or do i just keep my ears open. i"m scared cause i really didn't think he would screw me over and now i'm afraid he is just another stupid moron.
2006-07-15 20:54:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
basically..How do i know if he is a player..he is talking to me the same way he is talking to her..but he is hanging out with me everyday so i don't know..what to think and i'm Soooo scared when i didn't think i would put myself in a postion like this..help me please
2006-07-15 20:55:16 · update #1
He is allowed to have other friends. Unless it's a pic of them making out and it's super recent, you need to settle down and breathe. Talk to him. Have you discussed changing the nature of your relationship? Does he feel the same about you? And I mean does he use those words, not just you making assumptions because you've been hanging out alot.
2006-07-15 21:04:15 · answer #1 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to start looking for signs that hes cheating on you. if he frequently seems to be somewhere else and always has an excuse for where he is then hes probably cheating. if his excuse is always work then check with one of his co-workers to see. also it would be helpful to know how close he and the girl in the myspace picture look b/c this would provide a clue as to whether they are just friends or not. also check the girls profile again and see if it says anywhere that she is in a relationship. this will also help to figure out if he is cheating.
2006-07-15 21:03:54 · answer #2 · answered by John 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Myspace is a *****.. U will get caught on there, I did> > HEHEHE, but yea he's just another player, but there might be a good explanation, so just confront him!
2006-07-15 20:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by Ryan R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋