2006-07-15 20:38:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. The most important thing is eye contact when flirting. This is really the one single golden rule of flirting! Sounds easy, but can initially be difficult to establish for longer than a second or two. So when you next go out, find a guinea pig to practice on! Once you have decided on your target, look directly at him/her, then look away and always accompany this look with a smile. If they seem not to have noticed you, look again and this time smile directly at him/her. At first this really will be hard but once you get a reaction you will find your confidence will increase.
2. Once they have noticed you it is worthwhile having a few lines prepared for when they come over. However, if this does not happen, despite what you thought was a good reaction to your earlier eye contact, why don't you try approaching him/her? It could be that they are feeling just as unsure as you, so it's better to try rather than wonder what might have been.
3. When you do get to talk to them, always remember to be pleasant and smile whilst flirting - this will help put the other person at ease and also gives the impression that you are relaxed, even if inwardly you are shaking with nerves!
~hope this helps. If you have more questions please do not hesitate to ask!
2006-07-22 05:02:57 · answer #1 · answered by Bon Bon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope i am not about to tell you how to deceive a woman into the sack.... this is what does it for me.. it should all come naturally if your feelings are involved as well as your hormones.
inuendo.... basically, i like a guy that makes it clear he is interested but leaves it to me to make the first move.
lots of subtle hints, but keep your distance... keep her wondering... one minute act like she is the center of your world, the next laugh it all off and be distant. but this needs to be subtle or else it will just tick her off.
also, do the inner conflict deal... things like.. focus on her eyes or her lips as if they were the most beautiful thing on earth just long enough for her to notice, then look deliberately away, as if you're trying not to stare... a relapse here and there... lean in a little, as if you were going to kiss her, but then stop and let her kiss you instead...
2006-07-15 20:57:20 · answer #2 · answered by gwenwifar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'd have to dance with me. i love to dance. that's the way to my heart.i'd be all over a guy who did that.
2006-07-15 20:40:45 · answer #3 · answered by Chicago's_Best 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be cool and carm.
2006-07-15 20:41:46 · answer #4 · answered by Samyak J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋