how do i get me own back?

Question

i have a sister who has always got to in the centre of it all. I was trying for a baby,so she desided to get there first,but i was happy for her. then after getting pregnant 2 yrs after she had her first. She asked my mum,cause my sis is pregnant,does that mean my daughter gets less attension. I told my mum i dont what any be centre of it all,if anything they should be treated the same. Then all of a sudden she got pregnant just to make sure. had all my mums attention all the way. Having my third,then all of a sudden she got pregnant,after finding out i was. Then i got divorced after an abuseth marriage.got pregnant with my bf's baby,so i am waiting for her to get pregnant too. She said she doesnt want to,but her face something else. She has our family on side to look after her kids. She flirts with mums boyfriend to get what she wants. Now i am getting married,so i am waiting for this pregnancy.is there any ideas i can do get my own back on her,and make it back fire without her knowin

i treat my kids the same,one does not get without the other. know how it feels to not be treated the same. i will always be there for them no matter what

Answer 1

Name your baby after your mother (middle name), then she has to pay more attention to her namesake. lol..Won't your sister hate that???

Answer 2

If there's any way of talking to your mum about it do it and see what she says. She might reassure you that she cares for you both the same, perhaps she just finds your sister more needy than you, because you have told her before "you don't want to be the centre of it all". Maybe she just thinks you're better at coping than your sister, even throughout your childhood.

If that doesn't help, all you can really do is rise above it. Your sister sounds like a "type" of person - and it's hard to reason with people like that.

Hope it works out - just be happy with your bf and kids!

Answer 3

Instead of trying to get your own back, why don't you sit down and have a talk with your sister. It may be that she feels threatened by you or she doesn't realise that she is upsetting you or it could be a thousand reasons. You may shout and scream at each other, but afterwards you should have cleared the air - and if not at least you got it off your chest and not retaliating will make you the bigger person in the long run.

Answer 4

I think its time to move on in your life if you are gettin married , forget about your sister and start been a loving wife to your husband and children .You have your own life so dont worry about what others are doing , just enjoy your new life . I know there still familey but you might be better of without them .Love your husband and kids and make them the center off attention and forget your sister and mum , they will come see you if they love you .
Good luck

Answer 5

It's horrible that you are so jealous of your sister- haven't you heard of Cain and Abel or the story of the Prodigal son- you have children to be a role model too so GROW UP urself and quit caring so much about your mum! Do you have a favorite child? If you do this will only go on to the next generation so be prepared to always choose.

Answer 6

Its not always best to get your own revenge on someone else. Life has a tendency to do that on its own. If you try to get your sister back then it will most likely just backfire on you. If you sit back and wait, your sister will probably get tired of the attention and stop altogether. Hopefully as she gets older she will grow wiser and be less immature.

You could be the mature one and just let it go.

Answer 7

is your sister marriage? jus think about you new life and kids thats the best thing, don't let your sister get to you there are better things in life. what does you bloke think of all this? jus think about all the things you can give your kids and all the love and care they want. you sister needs to grow up and think about what she is doing, she should be the centre. also you could try talking to your mum and her boyfriend if it really gets you down,
hope everything works out and things
good luck with life and dont let things get to you

Answer 8

You poor souls. Listen, having babies all the time to get mom's attention - - - that sounds like alot of children to take care of?! I think you should stop worrying about your sister. Let her be. Care for yourself and your children. Good luck and congratulations on your marriage. Focus on that. All the positive things in your life. Be nice to your sister and your mom, but let them go. Your mother is not capable to see the situation and she will not change her behaviour. The only way to change anything is by changing yourself. Your behaviour.

My main message is:
Make sure you don't transfer this behaviour to your own children. Making them compeed for your love.

Answer 9

Since when did getting pregnant become a competition? Giving birth is such a personal and special thing. Don't turn it into a vengeful franchise. Be good and take care of your kids - that's all that matters.

Answer 10

Unstitch the hem of her curtains and insert prawns and then sew them up again.
When you get a summons to the Trisha show (Isewed fish in my sisters curtains special) you can let it all out then, it will be down to her because she's the one who summoned you there, but the entire world (or those who can see daytime television at least) will see her for what she really is. Good Luck

Answer 11

What ?
It sounds like you are having a competition with your sister to see who can have more babies ? to get your mother's attention ? Grow up; knock it off ! Don't be ridiculous !
Let her live her own life, And you live yours ! Good luck to you !
This is NOT a Game; there are children involved...