Help me, I sort of have four boyfriends at once! We all started out as just friends, but then our feelings got too strong and now I'm dating all of them! I keep telling them about the others, but they say they don't care! What am I supposed to do now? (I like them all!)
2006-07-15 19:20:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, If u want to be a 'Dedicated' girlfriend to only one, u should not be dating all of them or if u really like to have more then one BF then enjoy it now.
But now,If u want to choose one of them... for a long relationship, then, you should go with the one, who loves you most, not the one you like most....
And for others you just give them indications slowly... like giving some excuse for not going on date with them or so.... and after sometime say them directly that you are Girlfriend of the Chosen One, but friend of all.
2006-07-15 19:34:46 · answer #1 · answered by VJ 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When I was 20, I had this enjoyable problem. (we were dating, nothing physical with any of them) One guy told me that it wasn't fair and that I needed to pick just one. I told him that when I found the guy I was looking for, I would settle down and seeing that I hadn't settled down yet, he could assume it wasn't him. It may not have been the kindest answer, but the reality is, you like all 4 guys, but probably none of them will be "the one". If they were, you'd be able to choose no problem.
I do think that if you are physical with one, you've made a choice. If you are physical with all of them, well hun, they're men and know they've got a good thing. None of them has to own the cow to get the milk for free, get my drift?
Decide who you want to be: the girl they hold for 15 minutes or the girl they hold for life...
2006-07-16 02:34:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do u wana do? Do u want to go with only one or waa have all the four at a time!... I think u have gone for wrong guys, they are interested just in having fun with you.
2006-07-16 02:25:19 · answer #3 · answered by ForU 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find the one with the best quaities and the one you like THE MOST.
Then put the others down easy, dont hurt them, and try to all stay friends.
2006-07-16 02:22:25 · answer #4 · answered by godfather871 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm reading this, but I'm not seeing your problem... they're all ok with it... you like all of them... what do you need help with exactly?
If a relationship with one of them starts to get more serious, you'll just have to break it off with the others.
2006-07-16 02:23:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not a good idea to be dating all 4 guys... dating is set for ppl to find the one they love and want to marry... would you want to marry all 4 of them? just think about who you like the most and can see your self with for a period of time or the rest of your life with...
2006-07-16 02:24:13 · answer #6 · answered by alicia b. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me the only one here with a problem with the the thing is you, perhaps you need to take a good long look in the mirror and see what a slut looks like
2006-07-16 02:27:10 · answer #7 · answered by citisat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too me you sound like a pimp...keep up the good work. Joe a hater shake em' off.
2006-07-16 02:24:57 · answer #8 · answered by skyblu513 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sleeping with them all then they don't care about you just what they can get out of you,
2006-07-16 02:25:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy a ken doll get a viberator apperently you didn't need help getting these guys so why need help now you made your bed now lie in it and you'll fiure out how to get up out of bed to live the day out
2006-07-16 02:25:47 · answer #10 · answered by shiningon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋