My b/f and i started dating over 2 years ago, when we first met he asked me how many men i slept with, i told him a 1/3 of the amount, not we are talking about Marriage. Should i come clean???
2006-07-15 19:18:35 · 12 answers · asked by rock d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
4 what????how do u know thatt he told u the truth????
2006-07-15 19:22:59 · answer #1 · answered by buttapecan19702 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth always prevails. As said, you should not live in a lie for too long. It can't support nor defend you when the time comes. Just come clean and tell him the truth. Maybe he might understand. If not, at least your conscience is clear. you are in a win : lose situation. Choose to win, or live your life in full misery. All the best and I do hope you choose the correct choice. But who am I to say, it's ultimately your choice.
2006-07-16 02:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by Kurniawan A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It's deffinatly best to go into a marriage with the truth and if it comes up again threwout your marriage you don't want to hafta keep lieing about it. If he's the one, he'll still love you no matter what :)
2006-07-16 02:24:36 · answer #3 · answered by SweetCheekss06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you need to come clean, do you realy think your marrage is going to last if you start it out based on lies, if he loves you,he will let the past be the past and move on, if not try being honest from the start of a new relationship, lies will get you nowhere but into more lies.
2006-07-16 02:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by citisat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heh. Go on and tell him, deal with the consequences. You're talking about marriage...better let him know what he's getting into.
2006-07-16 02:21:54 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. O'Clock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahah, yes. He won't care. (I hope)
He probably told u he slept with 1/5 of the women he's really slept with.
2006-07-16 02:21:07 · answer #6 · answered by joseguate22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably...obviously it's nagging at you...and maybe he won't think it's a big deal and maybe he will, but it's better to tell him sooner than let him figure it out or tell him later.
2006-07-16 02:20:34 · answer #7 · answered by musikurt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES. u don't want to start a marriage based on lies, do you?
2006-07-16 02:39:17 · answer #8 · answered by RoseRed1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be better to tell him because if its still bothering you its not going to go away.Its better that he finds out from you instead of someone else.
2006-07-16 02:21:43 · answer #9 · answered by sweethp1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes honesty is always the best policy. even if he calls it off you will feel better.
2006-07-16 02:21:22 · answer #10 · answered by Snoopy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋