2006-07-15 18:13:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
ok, first, it depends on how far you are from Arizona...if you're in Southern California, Western Texas, or New Mexico, it might be worth it to hang on because you're not ridiculously far away. You might be able to get cheap flights or bus tickets or maybe find a middle spot to meet up. Second, if this is a permanent move, it's gonna be really hard unless one of you is willing to move, either him back to where you are, or you to Arizona...if this is a move for school or for any defined length of time, you'll need to evaluate how long you can live without seeing him. Third, it depends how old you are...if you're in you're teens or early 20's, move on and date a little bit, otherwise, you're missing your best years to meet someone by hanging on to a guy in another state. If you're older than that, it might be worth it because resources would be more practical to commute between the two places, and if you're younger, you shouldn't even be asking this question, definately move on :) Finally, do you love him and can you see spending the rest of your life with him? Do you think he feels the same way? If the answer to both of those is yes, than any obstacle is worth it. Good luck!
2006-07-15 18:22:55 · answer #1 · answered by romantemple16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I am currently also having a long distance relationship with my bf of 1 yr. At first, i was like you, getting sad and depressed. I was afraid that the relationship would turn sour as there are a lot of uncertainties about the future. But after we talked things out, we are sure that his move to another country does not mean an end to our relationship. We still wanted each other. Of course he can't be there by your side every now and then, but if the two of you truly love each other, i believe everything will work out. For me, we used video conferencing everyday so that we could still see each other & update each other about what has happened.
I think its best that you sit down with your bf & have a good talk. But, try to look on the bright side of things ya. Good luck!
2006-07-15 21:56:39 · answer #2 · answered by liyun_80 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have had an in depth discussion with your bf before this and then you would know if this relationship was going to last or not. If he really did just move, you should probably give yourself a little extra time to figure this out unless of course you already know the answer. You should never let circumstances around you depress/disappoint you--all things will disappoint except Jesus--base your life/decisions on Him and you will do just fine. Take care...
2006-07-15 18:22:44 · answer #3 · answered by grapes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in your shoes. My ex-boyfriend opted to ditch the relationship since he thought long distance relationships couldn't work. I tried moving on, but eventually he moved back and we started up our relationship again. It didn't work out in the long run because he couldn't decide what he wanted. I don't know how old you are, but you have to ask yourself this: Why did me move to Arizona? Did he seem inclined to wait for you? I think the answers to those questions are very telling. Best thing you can do regardless (and this is the advice my friends gave me) is to concentrate on taking care of yourself, enjoying the things that you love to do and make you proud and happy, and being around the people who love and care for you (and who are close at hand). Good luck girl, you can get thru this!!
2006-07-15 18:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by oh, yes! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your still in school honey move on a long distance relationship hardly never works if the guy is under id say twentyfive there still babys at that age and even if he says hes faithfull you can almost garentee hes not but if you are both adults physical an mentaly then id wait maby save up and go see him try suprising him that will tell you if hes worth waiting for good luck
2006-07-15 18:24:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on
2006-07-15 18:17:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get to know yourself again. Take a break from men, and decide what YOU want out of life. If down the road, he comes back and he is still what you want, fine. If he doesn't come back, you still have yourself and what you want out of life. There are plenty of fish in the sea.......
2006-07-15 18:27:59 · answer #7 · answered by bettyboop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well depends on your age. are you in college? if in high school i would say move on because whats the odds you will get to carry on this relationship? even while in college it would be a hardship. i would move on and find a boyfriend who lives near you that you can spend time with and have him near you to continue a relationship with. go to the high school prom with. good luck to you
2006-07-15 18:20:06 · answer #8 · answered by lnay69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you should learn to spell correctly -- shood = should. Secondly, why wait on him,,,,, he moved to another state!
2006-07-15 18:18:41 · answer #9 · answered by Dr Cog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how much energy and time you are willing to spend on him. If you truly love him and he loves you back.... it's worth the wait.
2006-07-15 18:15:47 · answer #10 · answered by ?-?lue-Eye?-? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋