my parents are so bossy that what they say that only happen i m 16 i cant take any descision of my life they ask but what they want that only happens .i m so scared ,angry,frustrated, i known they know are always right but still their pevious order or descision was wrong (like frist i was stding fine in india now they called me to thailand to do GCSE that also not in samui in bang kok). i m so scared i m so scared to go to bangkok .
2006-07-15 17:53:52 · 7 answers · asked by sina 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
Becuse you don't know how to control things because no one will let you!
What do you do when you get your first job?
What do you do when you marry and have to spread yourself and let them invaide you.
You need to learn, but you also need to be old enough and sometimes even 24 isn't old enough!
It's hard to say what to do with Foreinger, especially girls. In other countries girls still under total control of parents.
Anything I say goes against your customs or religion.
In order to break free you have to leave, go to another nation that is more "liberal" and still you have to find out what it's all about.
Everywhere a girl's ultimate job is to lie, spread her legs and let a man do what he does.
You're job is to make the babies in any culture.
Just hope the man is liberal and lets you have some say.
Let's you have some choice in the world.
Just hope he's kind and loving.
Your world is about doing what you are told to do.
Anything else is to go against your world.
2006-07-15 18:13:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are strong, but you must also learn to use your strength to relinquish control of some of the things you cannot control. Soon enough you will be your own adult, solely responsible for your own decisions. However (and this may be a separate matter), if you are frightened of something or fearful for your safety, you must seek help from a trusted source.
2006-07-15 18:00:55 · answer #2 · answered by freyajr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, parents knows what best for you. Or at least have considered every options and that includes pertaining to your well being also. Anyway...you will will get to love bangkok.
2006-07-15 17:58:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just calm down and talk to ur parents. and let them know what u want. dont shout and tel at them be patient and tell them softly what u want. thats how u have to behave with indian parents..
2006-07-18 01:43:48 · answer #4 · answered by The one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your status will improve after 4,5 yrs or when u start earning. Many girls experienced this and got over it.
2006-07-15 18:00:00 · answer #5 · answered by J.SWAMY I ఇ జ స్వామి 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have your own money you won't need anyone and you will not be under anyone's control.
2006-07-15 17:56:12 · answer #6 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God has a plan for you, have faith in him.
2006-07-15 17:57:30 · answer #7 · answered by morgysan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋