This girl ive known for several years and seems to be serious with this guy whos shes been dating for about a year now. I know your saying move on and all, not that easy as many of you know. I also can't expect to be "just friends" phase my whole life. Should I let feelings go before it is too late? Other answer? Thanks
2006-07-15 17:36:45 · 16 answers · asked by sportylefty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait, she probablly has some kind of interest in you as well, but if you make a move while she is in the relationship, you are in trouble. You could mess up the friendship and screw up your hopes of something more. Wait it out and in the mean time start dating other girls.
Either 1 you and one of the other girls will live happily ever after or 2 she will realize that she cares about you, and she makes her feelings clear.
Either way you end up with the girl for you.
2006-07-15 17:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by bluechick 5 · 15⤊ 5⤋
This is a tough one, but take it from me, you have to tell her. If you don't, not only will you never be able to answer "what if", but you'll always be disappointed in yourself that you sat by and didn't say anything. Sometime when you're together, just tell her that you really care about her as a friend, but you also want her to know that if things ever don't work out with the other guy, you'd love to try something more. It may not change anything, but at least you will have planted the idea in her mind.
2006-07-16 00:43:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should tell her how you feel.Bc someday your gonna wake up and realize..."Its too late. You cant ever go back!" Just let her kno how you feel. Even if it doesnt turn out the way you wanted it to,life is made for regrets.
2006-07-16 00:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by Kylie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel, or else she'll never know. If you watch that crappy movie called Win a Date With Tad Hamilton(i think thats the name), you'd see why. Good luck
2006-07-16 00:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by subzerofun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is VERY serious about this other guy, then you have to respect that. Then you just might have to move on, or as you say be just friends. Be cool.
2006-07-16 00:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move as far away from this chick as fast as you can . She is your worst nightmare and she knows it. She'd have you in a divorce court faster than you can say " What Happened" .
Dude - she is the poison in your soul and the daggar in your heart . RUN AWAY FAST and DO NOT LOOK BACK !!
2006-07-16 00:41:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are "serious," you have little chance unless you often a LOT more than he does.
But, go for it! They aren't engaged yet.
But, if she isn't interested, move on. THERE ARE SOOOOOO MANY WONDERFUL GIRLS OUT THERE. Don't waste your life missing out on other wonderful girls besides the one that you like right now.
2006-07-16 00:42:57 · answer #7 · answered by junglejoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if she really is in love with him...you will only be wasting your time and will continue to be hurt over and over...there are soooo many nice people in the world, step away from her and go out and meet people...you might just be surprised. :)
2006-07-16 01:36:13 · answer #8 · answered by bythebay257 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man, you knew her for six years before this and you let another dude have a relationship with her for a year??
you missed your chance buddy.
you might just really like her now because she's taken.
2006-07-16 00:39:58 · answer #9 · answered by tami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you spend so much time with her - enough for LOVE Where's the boyfriend?????
TellHer Fast!!!
Anoni.
2006-07-16 00:43:06 · answer #10 · answered by anoni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋