If you fall in love, you will lose your common sense (it has been proven by scientists!). This world is full of flowers and butterflies, you feel like king or queen of this world. You only have your mate in your mind. But later, whether or not you get married, all things will change. You will see his or her "dark sides".
Don't you thing it is a foolish deed to depend your life on somebody else? In fact, you often do not really know your boyfriend or girlfriend until you get married.
2006-07-15 17:35:38 · 18 answers · asked by r083r70v1ch 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand where you are coming from with this. I agree with a lot that you said. This is why I follow the two-year rule. I would never marry anyone I didn't date for two years. That is enough time for the initial falling-in-love chemical imbalance to wear off and for the other person to show their true colors.
2006-07-15 17:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by Annette R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can cause alot of funny emotions and blindness. And to be honest, you can know someone for a long time even in marriage and never really know them like you thought.. and yes love can be good and love can also bring painful times or complications and upsets in ones life. If you have had a bad relationship and experience, it may take you awhile to get over the hurt or resentment it has caused. This just means that person wasnt the one meant for you. And you learn from that exprience. But also if a new relationship happens in your futur with a new someone, dont hold that against your new partner by being insecure or comparing her to your ex. Every love is different and might consist of good and happiness or could be a not so good experience. try to not get in a relationship that would not be healthy for you and your emotions. Every relationship you are in , there is no guarantee on if it will work out or not. Love is taking a chance. Get to know someone before getting serious. Over time taking slow, you will learn more of their personality and moods.
2006-07-15 17:54:53 · answer #2 · answered by tiffani72kmg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 23:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by kinjorski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Falling in most definatly will mess up your life. made mine a hell of alot more complicated. And I feel that love is really overrated whe your young. You don't knwo whether or not you love someone until you are older. Young minds cannot comprehend the power of this feeling. How it can change people so quickly for better and for worse.
2006-07-15 17:41:23 · answer #4 · answered by Nic M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it dose mess up your life I love my b- friend so much I know nothing else but him and I depend on him a lot I should not do that but some days I'm like why am I with him but it would hurt so bad if I was not with him at all . Love dose things to you with out you knowing it.
2006-07-15 17:54:52 · answer #5 · answered by fieldmicegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything you say is true: however, that is NOT what is going to come out in the end; because since time immorial, people want to get enjoined and marriage is, after all, the basic building block for our society! Think of the family unit: and the rearing of children! So, while I really see what you are saying to be full of truth; that's not the way that mother nature intended things to be: and here's to the sanctity of those who, in all honor for their fellows, and themselves, marry with every good intention to share life and take responsibility one, for the other!
Wishing you happiness:::::::::::
2006-07-15 17:41:27 · answer #6 · answered by Tash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Falling in love can't mess up ur life. U don't have to depend on the other. Loving someone is one of the many reasons for living.
2006-07-15 17:39:51 · answer #7 · answered by JoJo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may mess up someones life but it can change someones life maybe the person doesnt have a dark side and wants to spend the rest of his/her life with you take the chance.
2006-07-15 17:43:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true, as long as you have a open relationship where u can talk about anything and i mean everything. If u have honesty, trust and take your time to get to know the person. I believe that one's life will not get messed up.
2006-07-15 17:46:36 · answer #9 · answered by lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truer words have never been spoken. But it's still worth it all. I wouldn't take anything back. I don't regret a thing. I will always be grateful for the loss of "common sense" to feel what I am feeling and have been for some time now...........
2006-07-15 17:44:34 · answer #10 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋