Am I a whore for getting a sugar daddy?

Question

I am 18, broke, have a kinda crappy home life, (moms a *****) and I wanna get a small place of my own, and have money to pay rent buy food and clothes, this guy I know who is 39 said he will help me with that, if I do things for him, hes not bad looking, and he makes good money, but I kind of would feel dirty for doing it, im not sure what to do. I have been thinking on this for about a week or so.

You people seem to have alot of hate in you. If you all had the chance to you would do it to.

Answer 1

I DONT THINK YOU ARE A WHORE, BUT I WOULD REALLY
THINK ABOUT WHAT WILL HAPPEN DOWN THE ROAD. IT
MAY SOUND WONDEFUL NOW. BUT IT TAKE IT TOLL, I KNOW YOU FEEL THAT LIFE IS PRETTY BAD RIGHT NOW
BUT YOU ARE YOUNG AND THINKS WILL GET BETTER FOR
YOU. HANG IN THERE SWEETHEART AND DAYS WILL GET
BRIGHTER FOR YOU.

Answer 2

Baby, think about what you are doing. Think about what you really want out of life. The guy will use you up and throw you out. Or he will get you pregnant like he's done the last 6 women he has been with, and then he will run. Don't get me wrong, I'm an older guy, and I'd love to have a young playmate. But I don't go looking, and I don't think being a sugardaddy would show her respect. Bottom line...set yourself a goal. Get a job, any job. Save your money and get you a place. Your troubles with Mom are because there are now two grown women living together under one roof. I've never seen that work.

Answer 3

this is a hard one. my 1st reaction i would agree with most of these people, but the more i think about it. we have no idea what ur home life is like or if u ever had one. its easy to set and judge others, but until u walk in thier shoes then we can never really know.
u r the one who has to get up every morning and look at urself in the mirror not me or them. it sounds like this is not the road u really want to take, or u would have already went down it.
so if its not the path u want, what is? what do u really want to do with ur life? i am guessing either u don't think u can achieve something else or someone has told u, u can't.
if there is something u would rather do, then ask there r some good people on here that probably has an answer. all i am saying u took the 1st step to ask 4 help. tell us what u really want to do.

Answer 4

It might seen like a way out for you at the moment and might even seen reasonable. What you don't see though is what that would do to you in the long run. If you go with somebody like that, you will lose your self respect over the years. It's a very sad road for people without their self respect. Life can take away, your loved ones, can crash your ambitions, can take away all of your possessions, but it can never take away your self respect. That's something that only you can give away. If you do it though, the road isn't pretty. Not saying or wishing for any of that for you. Just so you understand that that's your most valuable possession that absolutely no one can take away from you. NO ONE. Only you can give it away and it looks as if you are about to do it if you make that choice.

Answer 5

Hell no! You don't need him. Get a second job. He may give you a sexually transmitted disease. He may have other other young girls too. He could be lying too. He might not even do the things he say he would do. Once you start this you might lead to a path of being materialistic, and not have any self respect. Just come up with another way to be independent. You don't need a man to help you.

Answer 6

A lot of girls do that to like pay off loans or actually put food on the table....the reason behind it is just, but I think it still counts as u being a whore

Answer 7

Ok sweetie, Im gonna be blunt. Your prostuting basically, you know how to get a job sweety? areal job , and theres aide avaible if u cant make ends meet...contact your local welfare office but 1st you need to get a job and try to get a place fo your own.dont prsostitute urself thats so degrading! Your so young dont start out on a downward spiral. Sex is not a game you can get pregnant and i guarentee he wont be around.worse you can gets stds

Answer 8

Only do what your comfortable with. I don't recommend going through with this, but if you do be safe about it. Condoms in case he has STD's, and birth control. Don't do it if it's gonna ruin the rest of your life. I mean are you gonna be able to look your husband in the eyes when you get married? What about your children? And don't think it won't bother you if you don't tell him/them. It will bother you. I know it's tough, but I strongly recommend not doing this. You have your whole life in front of your, do you really want to go through the rest of your life, knowing you slept with someone for $$?

Answer 9

Yes you are a material whore. Go to school get training and get a job, s l u t. A rich guy can purchase a hole between two legs from anywhere.

Answer 10

Honey pretty soon u will be pull -ing tricks for the dude .Is that what u really want ,I saw this 100 of times before,get a job before u be given them

Answer 11

Don't do it!!! It will ruin your life and your self esteem! This man will feel like he owns you. Why don't you get a job and take care of yourself? People do it everyday! You don't have any children so it should be easy for you.