Let's say you've been talking to someone for about 2 weeks and you talk almost everyday for about an hour,and even though you were'nt expecting a present or anything that person forgot to call you on your birthday.Even just to say happy birthday,would u be upset and would you give that person the cold shoulder...
2006-07-15 17:07:22 · 14 answers · asked by Big Baby Sweets 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get over yourself. Are you really that important?
2006-07-15 17:10:24 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX Being upset because someone forgot your birthday understandable. We are all human and make human mistakes. I have been with my husband 13 years and we were so busy the week of our 13th anniversary that we both forgot about it. I was disappointed in myself and with him but I didn't let it ruin our relationship or for that fact, ruin the moment. Don't let this ruin a good relationship. People make mistakes. I know you have also. Haven't you missed someones birthday or forgot a special occasion? Be a man about it and don't let tomorrow slip away from you continuing your friendship. It's ok for you to remind her that she forgot. Don't give her the cold shoulder. Good luck hun and Happpppy Belated Birrrrthdayyyy to youuuuuu. Happpyyyy Belateddddd Birthdayyyy to youuuuuuuuu. Happy Belateddd Birthdayyyyyy dear whatever your name is , ohhhh Big Baby Sweetsssss, Happppy Belated Birthdayyyyy to you. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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2006-07-16 00:19:27 · answer #2 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be many reasons why they didn't call you. If you are their friend give them the benefit of the doubt rather than get upset over something that might be perfectly innocent. In some ways it us understandable to be upset which stems from being hurt, but if you aren't a child you should be able to take it in stride.
2006-07-16 00:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 weeks is not enough time to know someone but yes it would be a little hurtful only because we are all sensitive on our birthdays. In 2 weeks she probably forgot. I have a very bad memory so I know I would have forgotten. More than likely anyway. Just say to her"yeah (friends name) tried to get me to go (place) on my birthday but I wasn't feeling well." <----------Example of course.
I hope everything works out and good luck!
P.S. don't be to hard on him/her it's only 2 weeks.
2006-07-16 00:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it was an honest mistake. You've only been talking for two weeks, the person prolly forgot. Casually mention that it was your birthday and I'm sure they'll explain what happened.
2006-07-16 00:11:16 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that would bother me a little but if its only been 2 weeks since you met him he could have honestley forgot.So maby you should give him another chance to get to know the person before passing judgement just yet, give it a little time to find out his personality and what he's about then make your decision.
2006-07-16 00:34:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be really upset and yes i have given people the cold shoulder just because of that reason.
2006-07-16 00:10:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No give the person a break!!!! not everyone can remember everything Make a joke of it and keep on talking!!!!
2006-07-16 00:13:03 · answer #8 · answered by kittycat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would be hella mad!!! If we talked for 2 weeks str8 and he couldn't remember my birthday that would be grounds for a dismissal!
2006-07-16 00:11:04 · answer #9 · answered by CuteCaribChic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be upset, but I wouldn't stop speaking to them. In fact, I would probably joke about it. You should probably talk to them about it and see what's going on, maybe they just truly forgot.
2006-07-16 00:10:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should be mad but no cold shoulder that would push them even further away. Just tell them what they did and that has made you mad.
2006-07-16 00:12:23 · answer #11 · answered by staylowsaylo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋