I feel like my gf is rlly so sympathetic a lot of the times. As if i say something sweet to her, she doesnt rlly show any emotion towards it. What do i do?
2006-07-15 17:04:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok...from a womans point of veiw(dont listen to the first 2 answers)
go to her and say:do u love me?
if she says yes or some other way of saying yes: say:
well u havent been acting like it
or
well i was beginning to think maybe u werent in love with me anymore.
that should work if it dosent email me 4 more tips!!!
2006-07-15 17:10:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
These type of people can drive you crazy. You should tell her that you like girls that show there emotion. If you are watching a movie point out how a girl suppose to response to a guy. I hope when you are sweet to her, you are not doing something lame. Some girls expect more from a guy. She probaly think you have other intentions like sex, and she doesn't trust you.
2006-07-16 00:11:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be a sobering experience, to find that you have expectations that you automatically expect your gf to meet. That it's not the case is sort of hurtful. You need to do one thing or the other in this case:
*find out if she is just that way in general, meaning, it has nothing to do with her feelings for you.
*find out if she doesn't really feel the same strength of liking for you - as you do for her.
Either way, at least you will be DOING something about it: the solutions are really in your own hands. It just takes some determination to see it through, along with some grit!
Good luck with the outcome.
2006-07-16 00:11:19 · answer #3 · answered by Tash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Share your concerns with her. Let her know that you are bothered by her lack of emotions. You may learn that she really does have a more emotional side that she doesn't show.
2006-07-16 00:10:27 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that either she has a hard time expressing emotion or she really isn't into you. Talk to her about it and find out what's really going on.
2006-07-16 00:08:32 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat it do,
have y ou ever talk to her
because my cousin(girl) dis the same thing and i just talk to her at our family reunion. She brought her boy friend. and i was asking her some Questions about their realtionship. and by looking at her i can tell she dont show no emotions to her boyfriend even he said it
have you ever
- toke her out to eat
-walk around
- or if not just talk to her about
she probably is a tough gurl ya kno.
but show her in a way she sympathic instead of small talk.
one
2006-07-16 00:13:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop saying something sweet.
2006-07-16 00:08:08 · answer #7 · answered by shizzlechit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a little time, if she continues to be stiff, tell her to show some emotion or you'll dump her.
2006-07-16 00:07:13 · answer #8 · answered by Pug_Luver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you even know what the word sympathetic means?
2006-07-16 00:07:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple...shes just not that into you. Give her her space. Girls hate it when guys are too sweet!
2006-07-16 00:10:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋