my daughter is married to a dirty state trooper and we have tried talking to police and they said he is a police he wouldn't do that and they even laughed at us. we tried to have him investagated but they just act like it isn't true how do you stop a dirty cop when him and his father has money to buy him out of everything and the police don't believe you.Please i need help. he has already destoried my daughters life and told her child and she has tried to hide from him because of his threats. he stood in my living room and told me that he could kill her and get away with it and no one would ever know and never find her then he moved her and it took me over 2 years to find her and by then he has did everything and anything you can think of to her. he once stood in thier living room nake talking on the phone to the woman that lived next to my daughter and wanted to know if she wish she was there with him. he made sure my daughter couldn't get to any of her family .I beg you PLEASE help
2006-07-15 16:47:59 · 9 answers · asked by donna29374 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
Of course she should leave and divorce him if she has not already done that. use hidden cameras and/or recorders to show him in the action, Record all of your phone calls
Get a restraining order or order of protection
And police officers will , with evidence arrest and deal with officers who break thelaw, continue to report him to his supervisor, and his supervisor. Next contact the states attorney general.
2006-07-15 16:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sound like a tough situation. I wish you luck. Here are some suggestions.
If the agency has an internal affairs department, and most do, then that is who you call. Calling the department directly only causes you to look foolish and for him to be tipped off.
You will also need proof of some kind. Start carrying a micro cassette or digital voice recorder in your pocket or purse when he may be near you. Record all conversations with anyone involved in this. Phone conversations too. Save emails and letters. Get your daughter to step up to the plate and file reports with a jurisdiction NEAR that one but not that one. If he is a State Officer you can also write to the governor of that state.
Have your daughter call or go online to the national domestic violence hotline and they can also help her figure some of this out confidentially. Stay calm and honest through out this process or you will simply appear to be over zealous and hateful.
Sorry to say that but that is how it is. Do not tell ANYONE that doesn't need to know.. anything. Don't discuss it with people that don't need to know because you never know who will tell him and if your daughter's life is in jeopardy you will make it worse.
I wish you the best. Just remember.. not all officers are dirty.
Just be careful.. because just like all humans.. officers that you talk to along the way.. make dumb mistakes too.
2006-07-16 10:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by I KNOW I KNOW 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your daughter to the meanest, dirtiest, cut throat atty. you can find. Hire a private detective to follow the crumb everywhere. Have her file for divorce with a restraining order against him. Keep her at your house. Do not let him in. He will in all probability break your door down. Guess what you could do then?
If my daughter, was considering anything to do with a member of law enforcement, I would make things so miserable for him that he would think he had died and gone to hell. Cops are cops because they are controllers. That is as long as they think they can get away with it. Call their bluff and they will run for the boarder. To me it would be a step up for her to marry a drug dealing Pimp.
2006-07-15 17:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by oscar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go above the heads of the local police department, right to your state's Chief Of Police. And, if what you say is true, threats of kidnapping and actual kidnapping fall into the jurisdiction of the FBI. Your son-in-law's father can't bribe the FBI.
Both will have telephone listings. Call them.
2006-07-15 16:58:06 · answer #4 · answered by Doc Watson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hidden cameras, catch him doing something dirty and show everyone. Or you can walk up to him and tell him he is an *** hole, then have your daughter divorce him, get a restraining order, and then tell him he is an *** hole again! The FBI or Cheif of Police is a good way to get over his head without him bribing anyone.
2006-07-15 17:15:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact your State Attorney Generals Office. Also, if you feel your Civil Rights have in any way be violated, then the F.B.I. has authority to investigate local law enforcement offices and officers.
2006-07-15 17:05:20 · answer #6 · answered by ghostbuster1966 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep going over his head. If he is this way he does already have complaints against him I will bet. IF you have to go to another adjoining state and ask for help from someone who is not part of his troop. what state do you live in?
2006-07-15 17:00:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the FBI and ask to go in hiding
Or you can try to place tape recorders somewhere in room.
This guy sounds mental....he give police a bad name
Be careful and God Bless
One more thing..........seek help from your church
2006-07-15 19:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by mom of a boy and girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st dont go to his dept for help go to the state and you will need to have somekind or evidence to prove any type of complaint
2006-07-15 17:04:02 · answer #9 · answered by B J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋