Just because the guy is rich doesn't mean he's nice. A girl could have a guy who would treat her right and be happy, or a guy that would be incensitive, and mean but be rich. Is money really better than being happy?
2006-07-15 16:36:55 · 42 answers · asked by Kali 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not all girls are gold diggers.
2006-07-15 16:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by goldieluxxx 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because he's rich doesn't mean he's a jerk. You are categorizing people because of their wealth. Not good. Rich guys must have someone too. Donald Trump. celebrities, presidents, Bill Gates, etc. If you were a regular guy and became rich then you would now be the rich jerk. Get it? Then girls would be choosing you. Rich guys treat nice girls right and make them happy. No, money does not buy happiness just gets you closer to it (smile). Rephrase your question: Why are some women only attracted to Rich Guys and not Regular Guys, perhaps? But to answer your question: Because some women doesn't notice mere mortals. Because some women are not picky and critical about the right things. They are so attracted to the wealth and what it entails that they forget to inquire about character---that intangible quality that is reflected in a man's values and the way he treats the world and the women he's involved with---gets very short shrift.
2006-07-15 18:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by Ivy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ain't saying she's a gold digger... I think it's because they have brain cells, I don't know how old you are but you will learn as you get older, relationships come and go, Money is more important than relationships.
Women mature quicker than men, they learn early they should go for money, but when you get older you will learn once you have money, you will become that rich jerk with all the women.
I have proof that money brings happiness. The happiest man in he world is Hugh Hefner, he bangs beautiful women and is rich. Now you think he would have any of those women without money??? Hang in there and work real hard, you will have the money and the women, trust me!!
2006-07-15 16:48:48 · answer #3 · answered by pbuandl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no money isnt better than being happy. its just the messages that everybody is sending out today that you should get a rich guy and live really fancy for the parties and shows. i think that its more important in the long run to meet somebody that makes you happy since the world dont got enought happiness today! i think that gf/wives and all that are a special relationship that arent materialistic and are based on love and not lust or riches.
2006-07-15 16:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by russian_honey007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
money is not better than being happy... but unfortunately to be happy in our society it does require some money. i have personally gone the nice guy route and because of it inherited the costs of everything for 3 years, sunk my credit, and dropped out of school. (but the guy was REALLY nice, lol) i think you can accomplish way more with the guy who has money; even if he isn't as "nice". The fact is whether you're nice or not bills still need to be paid... mortgage, insurance, healthcare, and possibly childcare expenses including tuition. Why not try to become the rich nice guy....?
2006-07-15 16:41:23 · answer #5 · answered by lapyramid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The rich jerk provides security...especially for those who want marriage and family. As much as women are equals to men. There is always a need for security. (just in case) It has been that way since the caveman days. The ones who could best provide would get the women...
2006-07-15 16:43:14 · answer #6 · answered by dpon62 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True story here.. I was dating a guy that was from a very well off family.. I always felt inferior because he had money and well he loved to flaunt it.. now i come from a middle class family and had nice things just not a "rich girl" .. I always felt i wasnt good enough to be with him.. and that got in the way of us getting closer.. i met another man and i was smitten by him from the moment i saw him.. love at first site.. now although i cared deeply about my bf and he was like a best friend to me, i just couldnt see having a future with him.. i just didnt Love him.. like he Loved me.. so i broke up with him and dated the Sailor that didnt have money but I loved with all my heart and soul.. I always remained friends with the bf ,.. i married the sailor had two children with him.. and he cheated on me and left me with two kids.. only pays his c/s when its convient for him.. the bf from the well off family we are still friends to this day.. he's worth 2.2 million dollars.. Now he's also on his like 3rd or 4th wife and he cant seem to keep it in his drawers either.. but damn atleast if someone was going to cheat on me i would of rathered it be the man with the money and the houses.. instead of the one that left me and the kids struggling to make it by.. but even if i could reverse time id still go for love over money , im just stupid that way i guess lol..
2006-07-15 16:56:19 · answer #7 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way i find tht the right guy could either be rich or poor or in the middle it really doesnt matter to a girl... some girls dont even care non the less know if the guys is poor or rich its just another quality...... i i have turned down a rich guy but i didnt know he was rich and i really didnt care because i felt there wasnt tht conection..... so just keep being yourself and eventually youll pull through.... women love a true guy someone to make her laugh when she is sad and have her forget about eveything......
just keep being yourself.... GOOD LUCK!!
2006-07-15 16:42:12 · answer #8 · answered by kiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when girls are younger and just looking for a fling, a rich guy is great because..well..he's rich!
But if were looking to settle down and get serious, regular guys get the girl.
2006-07-15 16:41:13 · answer #9 · answered by itslikedakine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women are too old to play hard to get, so they preffer to save their selves some time and go with a rich guy, barley even knowing him. Why= Maybe because they are poor and need money, or they are damned by that sin called lust.
2006-07-15 16:42:10 · answer #10 · answered by astral.luna_enlightened 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women like SECURITY. Besides, all rich men are not jerks. Most of them study in college and bust their britches to get ahead. If you were suddenly rich, would you be a JERK? NO! Those guys are JUST LIKE YOU, only they worked a little harder to get what they got.
2006-07-15 16:40:45 · answer #11 · answered by NC_Pianist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋