How would you tell somebody youve worked with every day for the past 7 months that you have a crush on them?
It would be totally (well 90%) unexpected, shes nice and funny and everything (and gay) but still.... I wanna say it (LIFE"S TOO SHORT!) but I dont know how. I really dont expect anything from her, just wanna get it off my chest, but I wouldnt want for it to be an awkward experice for neither of us either!
2006-07-15 16:20:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take her out for drinks away from work.
2006-07-15 16:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them that you have a crush on them of the past 7 months. Trust me life is too short, You could be okay one minute and die the next of any thing, if a car crash and plane crash into the place you sleep and kill you. So never let a day go past to tell some one how you fill, They would only say yes or no. Plus don't worry about some awkward experice, so do it at a private setting but public. Like go out to eat and say it before your ready to go. It is some what awkward, but you wouldn't be wonder what they would say if you only just asked and people get upset that they never express there filling when they have the chance. Some times if they say no to the relationship at that time, It would bring you closer to them untill they are ready, Because they may be in a relationship at the time you ask, and once she brakes up, she would of kept you in mind. lol Once you have filling for someone you should tell them when you first get that fillings. Or you wasted days and time when you could of been with them and having a nice loving relationship, so never wait, just go for it, blow caution to the wind and say F uck it. and Do it.
2006-07-15 23:31:47 · answer #2 · answered by houtexknights330 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just the way you told us! Take her hands in yours, look down at your shoes if you have to, and say, "Life's too short, so I'm just going to blurt this out: I have a terrific crush on you."
If you're sure she's gay, then you won't get the eeeew-ick 'phobe response. Most likely she'll think you're really sweet and will be glad you told her, and even if you don't end up in a relationship, you'll be closer.
As a couple of others have said, though, take it outside of work. If only because if she feels the same way about you, the two of you can fall into each others' arms without the accounting department all having heart attacks.
2006-07-16 00:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by Scott F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're SURE she's gay, then get into a relaxed conversation, joking and such, and at some point when you are both laughing about something, say to her " you know what i've been wanting to do for a long time?" . then lean over and kiss her a little kiss onthe lips. not a big one, just a little one. it can pass off as a sweet friendly gesture if she isn't into the same feelings, but it can give her the chance to make it more if she wants. it's a way to give an intro to more that can be shrugged off as a friend thing if the feelings are not mutual. you won't alienate her as a friend and co worker that way and won't make things awkward. good luck!
2006-07-15 23:28:04 · answer #4 · answered by foxfirevigil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it Life is too short. Think about it like this. If you ask them out or tell them about your crush..will you die? Will everyone you love burn to death? Will she laugh at you? NO!! The only bad thing that could happen is a simple no. And even if she did say no then life goes on. You have nothing to lose. And soo much to gain. Good luck :)
2006-07-15 23:28:44 · answer #5 · answered by jpspiderman2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something outside of work. A comfortable environment. Just blurt it out. Be ready to laugh if it turns into an uncomfortable situation...
2006-07-15 23:23:37 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my man at work and we live together now.
we've been together for 2 years.
it's not easy but, i'm happy.
don't forget people talk sh*t.
i think you should ask her to hang out and see what she's like out of the work place. See if she's really what you think she is.
Then go from there.
Tell her she's pretty and then make your move.
good luck
2006-07-15 23:31:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you have a crush on her and keep going. Let her take the next step if there is one.
2006-07-15 23:25:37 · answer #8 · answered by Elwood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH SNAP!!
YOU TOO HUH???
I work with a girl that i've had a crush on for a long time now too and she'd be dumb to not know but i've never told her.
2006-07-15 23:26:57 · answer #9 · answered by xeroxpoop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One piece of sage advice that I don't see anywhere here... tread carefully if you manage her. In other words, if you're her boss, better watch it. ;) Definitely take it out of the office, and may I suggest a nice drink for her (and you if you need it!)
2006-07-27 01:05:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like this girl, then go for it but be sure you want the same
things as she does, if you not sure then you need to not go there
because you may just be looking for a nice time, and she may
be looking for more, so take it slow and really see what you want
this to be.
2006-07-15 23:25:27 · answer #11 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋