i know movie is movie and real life is real life. But i don't know the real life in the west. and in every movie, they seem fine having baby b4 get married. movies reflect the real life, right?
2006-07-15 16:05:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on what you value. I don't think that anyone should get married just because they are pregnant, beacuse that is just setting up the marriage for failure. If you think that it is time for you and your significant other to make the commitment then being married first is ideal....expecially in our society. Do what is best for you ....worry about everyone else later...or not at all. Just remember to think ahead and make informed decisions!
2006-07-15 16:10:19 · answer #1 · answered by akp683 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Movies don't reflect real life in general. I heard a talk show this morning on the radio or yesterday that said that there are 7 highprofile celebrity couples who have chosen not to get married and are having a baby together. ie: Brad Pitt and Angelina, Tom Cruise and Katy Holmes. Although Tom and Katy claim that they will eventually. It just depends on the situation and I've quit judging people about that kind of stuff anymore. And I've quit being so hung up over it in my own life as well.
2006-07-15 23:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by roses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Religion wise, its wrong. Socially its no longer taboo but trust me the older heads see an unmarried woman pregnant they would look at you in digust but it has become the norm and honestly being married these days just leads to divorce as long as you know that you are able to financially raise a child on your own your good other than that organize yourself before even thinking of having a baby. To answer your other question, movies do not reflect real life at all.
2006-07-15 23:25:45 · answer #3 · answered by trini_rocker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WRONG!
If the movies reflected real life everyone that got married would live happily ever after and ride off into the sunset and there would be no such thing as divorce
2006-07-15 23:08:04 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's not the end of the world but if you can plan the baby I would make sure to married first.
Babies are hard work and a big strain on your relationship so it's important to have lots of together time before you add a baby.
2006-07-15 23:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by Sara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Movies are fiction, not real life. If your pregnant and not married, well, I am a little bit old fashioned, but as long as there is love, respect and commitment, well, its OK.
2006-07-15 23:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by Dulcinea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no cus in read life having a baby means u cant go out hanging out woth friends ,clubbin,and ull be poor and having the gov. pay for wear u live , and so on but in movies the might be rich ect.
2006-07-15 23:12:37 · answer #7 · answered by Princess D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are looking for justification about something you feel wrong about. And looking on yahoo answers is a safe bet. You will get whatever opinion you want here.
Look inside as only you can answer this question.
2006-07-15 23:08:26 · answer #8 · answered by BigDaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 50 years ago in the west no, it looked really bad. But now it is still not so good but it seems to happen a lot so it is becoming social accepical.
2006-07-15 23:07:47 · answer #9 · answered by steven 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who's to say he'll stick around without a commitment and i wouldnt want a baby with a man who didnt want to marry me. its fine for other people just not somethin i would do
2006-07-15 23:11:02 · answer #10 · answered by princessashley2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋