2006-07-15 16:00:13 · 20 answers · asked by Dream Bree 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her you value your friendship so much that you do not want to break the connection. Tell her you enjoy her company. If she insists on the ultimatum thing, you can give her a break from you for a bit (a week or so) and talk with her again.
If that does not work, my friend, I'm afraid you will have to walk away. Good luck.
2006-07-15 16:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by Isis 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Tell her she may need to mature a bit more before you
decide, when someone adheres restrictions to a relationship
then the friendship is doomed, it appears that your ex still needs
to have it all, since what you both had is over and you are content
to be just friends she needs to except that if she still wants to continue to have company with you she should respect your
desire to have it your way or no way. Her idea of all or nothing is
the ol sly sincerity of emotional blackmail, is that what you need
now in your life when you need you mind for school ?? Is it that she wants attachment with no strings attached or to still be, well,
intimate as it were with everything as it was ?? Either way it all seems to be on you to answer how your heart feels; if your heart is not into your ex's formula then follow your heart, right now it seems you are following your thoughts. and your thoughts are tied up with her feelings and emotional buffers to lay stress on you. Tell her you only want to be friends, that what you two had
created a measure of inner care which you still feel, love is care,
trust and other measures of understanding, what your friend needs, is to mature so the balance of two individuals can focus
on more than having it all or nothing ..
gOOd luck, & welcome !!!!
2006-07-18 21:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by ♪σρսϟ яэχ♪ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the break up was over some foolish thing and it was not a case of her being unfaithful and a host of other legitimate reasons for the breaking up.
Secondly if there is some one in my life and we are getting on ok. I will not leave her to make back with an Ex Girl Friend. Some women and men dump good people over some one else, when things don't work out they feel they have a right to return into your life like nothing happen.
if you don't accept them they get angry and tell people all kind of nonsense over you when they are the cause of the break up.
2006-07-15 16:13:54 · answer #3 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't want to be friends? Then the answer is nothing....
It is not hard. Give her some room to get over you. Everyone is not meant to be friends, especially after a romantic relationship. Separation is the key. Maybe in the future, she will allow a friendship to happen. If not, you must move on.
2006-07-15 16:05:06 · answer #4 · answered by C-Squared 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry approximately your seize 22 difficulty, besides the undeniable fact that it it appears like she has replaced her concepts and did no longer destroy up with you in an fairly great way. If somebody would not desire to be with you, you are able to no longer stress the undertaking. via ignoring you, she's in fact advised you her plans, even in spite of the indisputable fact that how she did it replaced into so incorrect. you will constantly ask your self why she did it that way, yet via the sounds of it, you probably did no longer do something incorrect. She replaced into in basic terms a rooster to tell you the fact. As confusing because it somewhat is, sounds like that is time which you would be able to bypass on and are available across an incredible female which will savor you and all you're able to desire to grant. good-luck!
2016-12-10 07:48:07 · answer #5 · answered by edelmann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never want to be in a relationship that exsist over ultimatums. Let her know that you are just going to be her friend and if she can not deal with that then you will miss talking to her. If she really cares and wants to be with you, she will take what she can get.
2006-07-18 18:26:46 · answer #6 · answered by Artistic Prof. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to be friends and she can't handle the thought of being around you without being more. It's more her problem than yours. Don't do something you don't want. Maybe in time she'll come around. Good Luck.
2006-07-15 16:07:10 · answer #7 · answered by RussellMania 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your guns.Tell her that you want to be her friend. If she wants to totally cut ties that's up to her.
Staying friends with an ex seldom work out anyway.
2006-07-15 16:04:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should explain to her that you just want to be her friend. If, for some reason she can't understand that, tell her that you can't be her friend then....Tell her that you're taken by someone who lives in New York, lol
2006-07-15 16:20:16 · answer #9 · answered by marquittawilcher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds pretty dominating, why would you want a relationship with someone like that?
2006-07-15 16:03:38 · answer #10 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋