i t appears that men are very capable of separating emotions and sex. I dont believe that women, on the whole, have that capability. I feel there would be attachment issues, what does anyone out there think?
2006-07-15 15:57:49 · 12 answers · asked by caelestisinferno64 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women are capable of separating sex and emotions, but it doesn't take long before the sex loses it's appeal because there's no meaning behind it.
That's what happened with me, I was seeing a guy for almost a year, and from the beginning we agreed on a "friends with benefits" relationship (although that phrase had not been coined at that time). We agreed to be monogamous but to have no strings attached. He was a well-endowed and highly skilled lover, and it allowed me to become less inhibited in the bedroom.
But after several months, it was the same routine every time and the lack of emotional intimacy became an issue for me. Not that I was falling in love with him -- that wasn't the case -- but I wanted to be in love with someone and to make love with them. I met someone and we talked on the phone for a while and went out a couple times, and once I felt like there was emotional interest from this new guy and not just sexual, I ended the "benefits" with my "friend" and worked on building a relationship with my new man.
He was threatened by the fact that I had been with a ****-buddy, and that he had the body of a porn star; but honestly, the sex with the new guy was the most incredible experience of my life! Not only had I shed my inhibitions and passive tendencies, but for the first time in my life, the term "lovemaking" actually applied. The feeling of being with him and the way he made me feel was the highest high.
Unfortunately, too many of the other aspects of our relationship didn't go too well, and I had to end it after almost seven years. It's been several long, lonely months since then, and my libido is like a caged animal right now; but I know that anything less than the REAL thing will only provide temporary physical satisfaction. So instead of taking any chances with a casual encounter, I'll just take care of my own business and work on the other issues of mine that contributed to the failure of that relationship, and hope I'll be fortunate enough to share that incredible feeling with someone again someday.
2006-07-15 16:12:22 · answer #1 · answered by HearKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 03:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by saturnio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well both men and women have **** buddies and most men don't grow attached because they don't want to but women love the attention and cant wait for that man to come by have sex and leave
2006-07-15 16:01:54 · answer #3 · answered by robbie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it can work for a while. It seems to me that one person always develops feelings and then it's all down hill from there. I think you are right though in that it is easier for men to have sex without emotion.
2006-07-15 16:01:47 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I done this once and it totally worked for me! I was having great sex and there were no strings attached. I didn't get emotionally involved, actually it was the other way around he got emotionally involved. But it totally worked for me and I would probably do it again.
2006-07-15 16:01:50 · answer #5 · answered by tricksy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had those kind of buddies...usually after ending a relationship and its usually with a guy I know ( like an ex that I am friends with) After ending a relationship..I usually don't give a crap about anyone or anything...
2006-07-15 16:02:28 · answer #6 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the woman. So women are emotional and attached and others are in it for the thrill.
2006-07-15 16:02:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for us emotion comes after shooting off.
a stiff dick has no conscience.
just like no calling the skank from the bar after you bag her.
f-buddies are just a jism rag with breasts
seriously though its not a "guy" issue. its a preference of sexual habits. I prefer sex with emotion its better. f-buddies usually have other f-buddies. quite the petri dish of collected bateria and possible viruses.
2006-07-15 16:19:18 · answer #8 · answered by mememememe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, maybe some women can do that but i think many women tell themselves they wont get attached and end up doing it anyway.
2006-07-15 16:01:10 · answer #9 · answered by standstill 22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Men are more driven into sex.
2006-07-15 16:04:06 · answer #10 · answered by teddybear1268 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋